Contemplating my marriage

[97chevycamaro]

Is it bad that i sat here and figured out the only thing i would miss from my marriage is sex? I mean i could give a **** about being alone, hell who wouldnt mind $1000 extra a month to spend on your car. I just think that after my marriage id stop trying and never have sex again. Sorry this is coming after my wife magically decided yesterday that she wants us to spend time apart and something about she cant see herself with me forever. Im confused all i do is work and take care of her, her sister and our kid, im supportive of what she wanst and feels. Sometimes im kind of a ******* but i never yell or hit her or anything like that. Oh well i dont understand these women maybe i should just let her live alone for awhile.

[ November 09, 2004, 12:13 PM: Message edited by: 97chevycamaro ]

[Johnny Ray]

We either grow together on this path of life or we grow apart.

I wish you the best whatever the outcome of your relationship may be my friend.

:cool:

[cassie]

whoa.

Don't you love her? When you married her you made a promise to stay together thru everything...Just because things are tough now and sometimes you both have doubts, you can still make it worth while. I'd try and talk to someone, to start off, her.

[97chevycamaro]

I try, mostly she yells at me about stuff. Shes says im condesending to her, i dont know. I love her alot and dont think i could last without her but i quite frankly tired of listening to her ***** about everything signle thing i do. Shes got me to where i dont know what to say to her not to make her pissed off. She wasnt always like this jsut the last 5 or 6 months. I sit down and try to talk to her but she always seems to get pissed when i try to be serious. Im confused at this point, I try to ask her what shes feeling and why shes angry and she storms off screaming I hate her and dont care about her and whatnot

[j_downey50]

Originally posted by 97chevycamaro:
I try, mostly she yells at me about stuff. Shes says im condesending to her, i dont know. I love her alot and dont think i could last without her but i quite frankly tired of listening to her ***** about everything signle thing i do. Shes got me to where i dont know what to say to her not to make her pissed off. She wasnt always like this jsut the last 5 or 6 months. I sit down and try to talk to her but she always seems to get pissed when i try to be serious. Im confused at this point, I try to ask her what shes feeling and why shes angry and she storms off screaming I hate her and dont care about her and whatnot

read the book "men are from mars, women are from venus" by john gray, Ph.D.
it explains the differences between men and women, how we hear things, and how we say them. for instance, when you say one thing she could be hearing something completely different. the book was recommended to me by my ex (we split up about two weeks ago) and this book has really changed my views on women and how to talk to them. if you want any tips from the book or anything, feel free to drop me an e-mail (j_downey50@hotmail.com) or hit me up on AIM(jdowney951).

[tWiStEdBird]

She make any new friends lately (male or female)? Is this just recent/ out of no where, or has it been getting worse over time? Do you feel you guys spend enough time together? Lots of questions, but I hope it turns out good for you.

[97chevycamaro]

Originally posted by tWiStEdBird:
She make any new friends lately (male or female)? Is this just recent/ out of no where, or has it been getting worse over time? Do you feel you guys spend enough time together? Lots of questions, but I hope it turns out good for you.

Not really any new friends, we both work 40 hrs but we see each other at least a couple hrs a day and then weds and thurs we both have off

[ironranger]

dang man,hope you get it squared away