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**asdf1234** · 11-09-2004, 02:43 PM

If i were you, i wouldn't take your position for granted. That is if she loves you like she says she does. Talk to her about it and let her know how you feel and see what she thinks about it.

**Fredless** · 11-09-2004, 02:50 PM

She's pushing you for sex? I'd be wary of that. I've never dated a girl that pushed ME for sex...its always been a mutual decescion. I've never pressured any girl into it.

If she really loves you, she'll respect that and wait. Just learn how to give her head and she'll be alright.

**1DangerousV6** · 11-09-2004, 02:51 PM

dude...you are wayyyyyyy to young to be thinking this is the girl you'll be with forever if you are already having problems with her...the age thing shouldnt be an issue though...i dated a 15 year old when i was 17...she was one year behind me in school...not a big deal...since then i've met girls that i was POSSITIVE were "the one" ...and was with them for a good couple years too (one cheated on me...kicked her *** to the curb in a flash)...im not telling you what to do...i just know that from my experience in relationships there is just SO much more to come than you could even think was possible...i WISH i knew all that lay ahead of me as far as girls when i was 17 ...im 24 now...i've been living with my current girlfriend for 6 months now...im possitive shes the one...due to all of my experiences...and because when you know...you just know...and in this case...you dont know...i would definitely sit her down and tell her whats on your mind...maybe she'll understand...maybe she wont...maybe she'll even want the same thing...but one of the most important things i've learned...is you have to do whats best for YOU...i broke up with a girl because no matter HOW good she was to me...no matter HOW much she loved me and SAID she loved me...i could not FORCE myself to have these same feelings for her...because i didnt...and i never would...i would've always been unhappy and wondering what was out there for me...hope that helps some [img]smile.gif[/img]

**Blazing_Firebird** · 11-09-2004, 02:53 PM

Aside from the fact that she's a minor and you're not a minor, that may present a problem if she ever becomes bitter with you and wants to somehow screw you over.

I don't mind people over 18 dating people a few years younger than 18, but you have to be uber-careful.

If she really loves you, make a compromise with her. It really depends on your definition of sex, anyways. It's nice to hear that you're adamant on remaining a virgin until you're married, so you should probably discuss it with her.

**pontiac nino** · 11-09-2004, 03:01 PM

DON'T THROW A LOG TO THE BEAVER!
She kinda sounds like the use em' and abuse em' type or the ****em and leave em type (yes, women do that too). Being a 19yr old virgin makes you an extremely engangered species, actually women tend to find that very attractive. Just hold off and eventually things will get better for you, explain to her that you want to hold off and why, if she don't or refuses to understand screw her, there's many other women that will find interest in you.
Good luck! [img]smile.gif[/img]

**Beruit** · 11-09-2004, 03:09 PM

i just went through a similar experience. im 19 as well, met me now Xg/f when was about to turn 18 we were together for a year and a half. it was my first serious relation. we planned on getting married yada yada ya but after getting into our second year of college we both realized we were missing out on something. meeting new people not just as friends. so we broke up mutually she hates it now. asks me to come back whenever we talk. we i stopped talking and am now dating 2 or 3 girls(they all know about eachotehr so dont jump saying im a player) but it was way to young for me to realize it was too early to find the person i would be with forever go out enjoy it meet people then settle down later. cuz if you have nothign to compair to how do u know its teh best? good luck with whatever u choose

**tWiStEdBird** · 11-09-2004, 03:18 PM

Well I'm not a very religious person, so I probably can't comment much on the whole waiting till marriage... I can't say I've ever met a guy who wanted to wait... Female for that matter. Either way, females are evil. Seriously, they play games like mad. Do what you feel is right, but don't get too attached. It may sound cold, but keep your fists up, be on the lookout, and try not to let it hit you too hard if something doesn't work out. Good luck man.

**Domesticchic** · 11-09-2004, 04:27 PM

I am 18 and my bf is 26.. We don't mind the age difference because we love eachother, we get a long great and we have so much in common.. Just do what you think is right.. Like everyone else is saying sit her down and talk to her.. Tell her how you feel.. If she is pushing you to have sex, I'd be kind of worried.. Just talk to her about it and if she is willing to wait then that's awesome if she's not just boot her to the curb and find someone else better for ya.. Hope everything works out for ya..

**ka50** · 11-09-2004, 04:38 PM

Originally posted by Ender2664:
Sorry i can't spell. Well here is the situation
I am 19 year old male that lives in socal, I am dateing a 17 year old female that lives about half a mile away from me. We have been going together for about 4 months now and we both like each other a tone, and she allways tells me how much she loves me. All good right, well we get in small little fights that come from her being younger than i am and less mature. Well here is the whole deal, as the days are going by, we are getting more and more serious. (i am a virgin and stayings so until marage, and she is pushing me to have sex) But i am just kind of worried. Cause the whole thing is that this is literally my first girl friend, and the first girl that i have ever kissed. I don't just hook up with chick, i like to be a gentle man. But the thing is that i kind of want to see what else is out there, cause after all this is my first relationship, and as the days go she is more and more in love with me. So i am just being an idiot and i should shut my mouth and continue with her, or should we take a break or something so that i can see what else is out there, and if she is really right for me? Plz give me your opionons cause i have no past experiance to draw upon, i am sure that i will add more info to the post as time goes on and i think of more relevant things.

Not to offend your beliefs, but are you sure you're true heterosexual? Waiting til marriage? roflmao... dude you're being brainwashed pretty good.

What is the reason to wait? Pregnancy? Use rubber with nonoxinol-9 (spermicide)... STD's? Use rubber, chances of getting a serious STD's are extremely low with rubber.

You've been with a girl 4 months and haven't had sex yet? LMAO...

now, assuming in your state the legal age is 17 or 16, RUN and 12 pack of rubbers, RUN to your girl right now. Start kissing her, light petting, heavy petting, then start underessing her, slap on the rubber and have fun.

lol dude seriously grow up and be a man

actually, the age of consent is 18 in california.
http://www.ageofconsent.com/ageofconsent.htm

so it all depends if you want to risk or not

**98Camaro3.8** · 11-09-2004, 04:39 PM

Originally posted by ka50:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Ender2664:
Sorry i can't spell. Well here is the situation
I am 19 year old male that lives in socal, I am dateing a 17 year old female that lives about half a mile away from me. We have been going together for about 4 months now and we both like each other a tone, and she allways tells me how much she loves me. All good right, well we get in small little fights that come from her being younger than i am and less mature. Well here is the whole deal, as the days are going by, we are getting more and more serious. (i am a virgin and stayings so until marage, and she is pushing me to have sex) But i am just kind of worried. Cause the whole thing is that this is literally my first girl friend, and the first girl that i have ever kissed. I don't just hook up with chick, i like to be a gentle man. But the thing is that i kind of want to see what else is out there, cause after all this is my first relationship, and as the days go she is more and more in love with me. So i am just being an idiot and i should shut my mouth and continue with her, or should we take a break or something so that i can see what else is out there, and if she is really right for me? Plz give me your opionons cause i have no past experiance to draw upon, i am sure that i will add more info to the post as time goes on and i think of more relevant things.

Not to offend your beliefs, but are you sure you're true heterosexual? Waiting til marriage? roflmao... dude you're being brainwashed pretty good.

What is the reason to wait? Pregnancy? Use rubber with nonoxinol-9 (spermicide)... STD's? Use rubber, chances of getting a serious STD's are extremely low with rubber.

You've been with a girl 4 months and haven't had sex yet? LMAO...

now, assuming in your state the legal age is 17 or 16, RUN and 12 pack of rubbers, RUN to your girl right now. Start kissing her, light petting, heavy petting, then start underessing her, slap on the rubber and have fun.

lol dude seriously grow up and be a man [/QUOTE]:rolleyes:
I think you're the one who needs to grow up. But we already knew that from your previous posts lately. :rolleyes: [img]graemlins/slap.gif[/img]

**ka50** · 11-09-2004, 04:51 PM

Originally posted by 98Camaro3.8:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by ka50:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Ender2664:
Sorry i can't spell. Well here is the situation
I am 19 year old male that lives in socal, I am dateing a 17 year old female that lives about half a mile away from me. We have been going together for about 4 months now and we both like each other a tone, and she allways tells me how much she loves me. All good right, well we get in small little fights that come from her being younger than i am and less mature. Well here is the whole deal, as the days are going by, we are getting more and more serious. (i am a virgin and stayings so until marage, and she is pushing me to have sex) But i am just kind of worried. Cause the whole thing is that this is literally my first girl friend, and the first girl that i have ever kissed. I don't just hook up with chick, i like to be a gentle man. But the thing is that i kind of want to see what else is out there, cause after all this is my first relationship, and as the days go she is more and more in love with me. So i am just being an idiot and i should shut my mouth and continue with her, or should we take a break or something so that i can see what else is out there, and if she is really right for me? Plz give me your opionons cause i have no past experiance to draw upon, i am sure that i will add more info to the post as time goes on and i think of more relevant things.

Not to offend your beliefs, but are you sure you're true heterosexual? Waiting til marriage? roflmao... dude you're being brainwashed pretty good.

What is the reason to wait? Pregnancy? Use rubber with nonoxinol-9 (spermicide)... STD's? Use rubber, chances of getting a serious STD's are extremely low with rubber.

You've been with a girl 4 months and haven't had sex yet? LMAO...

now, assuming in your state the legal age is 17 or 16, RUN and 12 pack of rubbers, RUN to your girl right now. Start kissing her, light petting, heavy petting, then start underessing her, slap on the rubber and have fun.

lol dude seriously grow up and be a man [/QUOTE]:rolleyes:
I think you're the one who needs to grow up. But we already knew that from your previous posts lately. :rolleyes: [img]graemlins/slap.gif[/img] [/QUOTE]lol, well, at least I'm not pussified like some people that I meet.

living life to it's fullest :D

**GrigoryRasputin** · 11-09-2004, 04:56 PM

Originally posted by ka50:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Ender2664:
Sorry i can't spell. Well here is the situation
I am 19 year old male that lives in socal, I am dateing a 17 year old female that lives about half a mile away from me. We have been going together for about 4 months now and we both like each other a tone, and she allways tells me how much she loves me. All good right, well we get in small little fights that come from her being younger than i am and less mature. Well here is the whole deal, as the days are going by, we are getting more and more serious. (i am a virgin and stayings so until marage, and she is pushing me to have sex) But i am just kind of worried. Cause the whole thing is that this is literally my first girl friend, and the first girl that i have ever kissed. I don't just hook up with chick, i like to be a gentle man. But the thing is that i kind of want to see what else is out there, cause after all this is my first relationship, and as the days go she is more and more in love with me. So i am just being an idiot and i should shut my mouth and continue with her, or should we take a break or something so that i can see what else is out there, and if she is really right for me? Plz give me your opionons cause i have no past experiance to draw upon, i am sure that i will add more info to the post as time goes on and i think of more relevant things.

Not to offend your beliefs, but are you sure you're true heterosexual? Waiting til marriage? roflmao... dude you're being brainwashed pretty good.

What is the reason to wait? Pregnancy? Use rubber with nonoxinol-9 (spermicide)... STD's? Use rubber, chances of getting a serious STD's are extremely low with rubber.

You've been with a girl 4 months and haven't had sex yet? LMAO...

now, assuming in your state the legal age is 17 or 16, RUN and 12 pack of rubbers, RUN to your girl right now. Start kissing her, light petting, heavy petting, then start underessing her, slap on the rubber and have fun.

lol dude seriously grow up and be a man

actually, the age of consent is 18 in california.
http://www.ageofconsent.com/ageofconsent.htm

so it all depends if you want to risk or not [/QUOTE]Yet again pulling FAR into the lead for the most immature poster on the board. You be a man and acknowledge that some people want to do things differently than you. Besides - it seems this guy is presented by a problem he may have some control over... some girl WANTS to have sex with him... How do you plan on rectifying the problem that no girl in their right mind wants to have sex with a small dicked immature little boy that cant get his head out of his ***?

**HAZ-Matt** · 11-09-2004, 05:00 PM

Ka50 did you sustain significant emotional scars from walking in ony our mom boinking a man who wasnt her husband/your dad?

To answer Grig: easy, **** a girl who isnt in her right mind.

**1DangerousV6** · 11-09-2004, 05:00 PM

did you know condoms only give you 70% protection?...when you end up with AIDS you wont be living life to the fullest anymore...30% is too large for me...let him take it slow...granted you can take certain measures...but theres no way around it...when you sleep with someone...you're sleeping with everyone they've slept with...from a medical point of view...have you ever watched someone die of aids?...NOT in the movies?...i've had sex with my share of girls...but damn dude...i cant believe you just called him a pussy for that...that was more immature than ME...and that says something lol..

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