What is an acceptable number for sexual partners?

[White95]

Originally posted by AaronG:
im 18 and at 4, thats not bad.

I must being doing something wrong....I'm 18 and only at 1! ::Picks up coat and leaves to try to catch up to the rest of the pack::

[panman79]

I'm 25 and it looks like I have had more than my fair share. Just gotta remember, condoms are your friend.
Usually I just hope the girl's bedpost notches don't outnumber mine. I just stopped asking, I don't really wanna know unless I'm about to marry her.

[StudlyCamaro]

Originally posted by TMGSIX:
You guys who think that having sex with several partners equals experience are sadly mistaken. Experience is not gained by 10 minute alcohol induced lays, its aquired by being in an open, trusting relationship were both people feel comfortable expressing their likes and dislikes and are willing to try new positions and methods. Like I said before, a girl who has had sex with 10 diff. guys a few times each is nowhere near as appealing or experienced as a girl who has had sex with 1 guy hundreds of times, and knows what she wants and how she wants it.

i 100% disagree, ive been with women that have been around the block, if you will, and they are much better than the girls that have been in relationships with one or 2 guys and have not gotten any from elsewhere. yeah some long relationships can lead to experimentation, however lots of times the couple will just fall into a rut and do the same **** over and over. yeah that girl might know how to get mr. jones off really good , but im different and she has no idea how to service me... maybe i just look into this **** too much though [img]graemlins/twak.gif[/img]


but possibly im just that good in bed [img]graemlins/banana.gif[/img]

[memphis_raines]

Originally posted by Jerriko's Garage:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by epic:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by ka50:
Who cares. As long as the girl is good, is clean (get her to the clinic to check for STD's), it really doesn't matter how many partners she's had in the past.

Hotdog down the bowling alley much? [img]graemlins/rofl.gif[/img]

I'm at 8 @ 21. Am I a whore? </font>[/QUOTE]Definitely...congrats!!! [img]graemlins/rofl.gif[/img] </font>[/QUOTE]Holy hell......I'm 26 and looking for number 21!

[navyblue2000]

Originally posted by cassie:
It really doesn't matter. I'd say over 20 is unacceptable. People should be able to have fun, and sex, is fun. As long as she has practiced safe sex and is free of disease it shouldn't matter really. BUT, 20 is pushing it in my book.

20?!
Gaw, I'm glad I didn't....

Anyhow, I'm 21 and have been with 2. One was more or less a one night stand at a not so good point in my life. Something I HONESTLY wish I could do over.
Now though, I'm engaged to a beautiful girl, who's been only with me, and it's pretty nice to know the only really MEANINGFUL activity like that for both of us has been exclusive to us.

I could be promiscuous, keep track, and i KNOW OF at LEAST 6 or 7 that I could have (that have told me)...but Sex is a tad more than just a statistic for me...and I think I'm just for thinking that. It's a special thing.

[97V6Camaro]

Umm...im 16. Is 3 too many? lol

[95Batmobile]

ok ok stop bragging you man-whores [img]tongue.gif[/img]

Back on topic, share how many partners is too many for your woman to have.

This is pretty interesting so far... a lot of you guys are pretty conservative with your numbers... I think it would be interesting to break this down demographically and see if the numbers corresponding to your country region... see if people from say CA are more accepting of sluts than people in Florida... since it seems all the girls here are hoes lol

[speedracer95v6]

We have plenty of CSs here in the heartland. It really depends on the people, regions dont matter much unless you are amish.

[navyblue2000]

FWIW...

I dated a girl...back when I was 17, she was 16. She had a lot of parental problems, was a foster child who was adopted when she was 8...Usually tht can lead to problems...but anyhow

she was at the time 16. had "ONLY" had 7 guys before me. Supposedly they were all virgins but I don't believe that. She has a hard time wondering why I didn't sleep with her. come on!! ONLY 7 GUYS? and you're 16?! She had her first time it was either shortly before or after her 14th birthday... crazy.
now she's got a kid, had it when she was 18, she's 20 now. Imagine that.

[95Batmobile]

Originally posted by navyblue2000:
FWIW...

I dated a girl...back when I was 17, she was 16. She had a lot of parental problems, was a foster child who was adopted when she was 8...Usually tht can lead to problems...but anyhow

she was at the time 16. had "ONLY" had 7 guys before me. Supposedly they were all virgins but I don't believe that. She has a hard time wondering why I didn't sleep with her. come on!! ONLY 7 GUYS? and you're 16?! She had her first time it was either shortly before or after her 14th birthday... crazy.
now she's got a kid, had it when she was 18, she's 20 now. Imagine that.

7 guys by age 16 is just plain slutty.

[RancidCamaro]

[quote]Originally posted by 95Batmobile:

7 guys by age 16 is just plain slutty.

AND RIGHT UP MY ALLEY!!! [img]smile.gif[/img]

[95Batmobile]

Originally posted by RancidCamaro:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by 95Batmobile:

7 guys by age 16 is just plain slutty.

AND RIGHT UP MY ALLEY!!! [img]smile.gif[/img] </font>

Quiet man-whore! [img]tongue.gif[/img]
Make sure they're still in your alley when I come to vegas [img]tongue.gif[/img]

[Nicklz]

Guys I'm 24, I've tried to count up the girls, I know I'm somewhere in the mid 40's maybe higher.
I've been with my current girlfriend for 2 1/2 years and never cheated on her. Let's just say I had alot of fun in high school and college.

Anyways I was like everyone else, I always wondered or wanted to know how many guys this chick had been with. Well my current girlfiend (was a virgin when we met) said the most insightful thing.

She asked if I was a virgin I said no, and was quickly trying to think of a good way to say.... I was a male slut. I started to say some BS line, then I think she could tell from my hesitation, and she said "you love me right?" "i said yes" then she said "ok, then the past doesn't matter and I don't want to know"

If you actually care for the person it shouldn't matter. I can understand the wanting to know, and if you have to ask just be ready to accept the answer whatever it might be.

[camaro_speedemon]

Sluts turn me on [img]graemlins/naughty.gif[/img] But I would never have a relationship with one.

I don't think the number of partners matter so long as they are clean. I was fortunate to be #2 for my fiance.

['98 BlackBird]

I was the first fo April. So where did the other 5 come from? hhmmmmmmm [img]graemlins/naughty.gif[/img]