Anyone here steal or marry their friends girl???

[5SpeedBird]

Anyone here steal or marry their friends girl???

it happens. I just wonder if you were able to work it out where everyone was happy. Or did it blow up. Tell your story.

I have 1 friend who would trade / give his wife away in a sec. If he didn't lose his house or anything. He wants to chase young cuties for fun.

But if there was ever an open. Id snag his woman up ASAP. Shes a keeper.

Opportunity may start knocking soon. He keeps talking more n more how he wants out. Is already trying to play the field and in the last 3 years I have never seen him, kiss, touch or say a kind word to her. He just *****es n moans at her 24/7. Doesn't seam to like anything about her or how she does it.

But as a outsider. he is nuts.

Its a hard thing. I feel pulled in two directions.

[57s98Camaro]

I've done it. Not proud of it, but it's happend.

You just end up losing two friends eventually.

[ka50]

tell him you'll marry his wife if he pays you money lol

[MTMike]

no... but my wife was trying to set her friend up with me when we met.... Funny how things happen

[Jerriko's Garage]

Sort of. I broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years in 1994. My married best friend of 7 years decided he wanted to hit it. Thing is he didn't tell me. I got back with her about a month later and she was screwing both of us. She got pregnant and claimed it was mine. I didn't know about her and my friend. Eventually it came out that she was f*cking him and he got divorced. My ex and ex-best friend got married two months later. We really never figured out who the father is. She looks like my aunt and his mother. Anyways, he adopted her. Last year, a dear friend ours died and we all got together, to drink only. We are all good friends now. But I would still suggest that you avoid those sorts of situations.

[majeskyb]

Originally posted by MTMike:
no... but my wife was trying to set her friend up with me when we met.... Funny how things happen

My wife tried to do that to me with one of our friends. I'm glad I didn't do it. Back to the original poster, I think I would do it, if he's treating her like crap and has no respect for her. Show her how a real man is suppost to treat a woman

[Shirl]

posted by Jerriko
Sort of. I broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years in 1994. My married best friend of 7 years decided he wanted to hit it. Thing is he didn't tell me. I got back with her about a month later and she was screwing both of us. She got pregnant and claimed it was mine. I didn't know about her and my friend. Eventually it came out that she was f*cking him and he got divorced. My ex and ex-best friend got married two months later. We really never figured out who the father is. She looks like my aunt and his mother. Anyways, he adopted her. Last year, a dear friend ours died and we all got together, to drink only. We are all good friends now. But I would still suggest that you avoid those sorts of situations.

:eek: I had to read that twice to understand it. I'm sorry to hear about that. Just goes to show how screwed up EVERYONE IS. I totally agree with your advice to stay the hell away from that situation.

My best friend was having an affair (for about 5 months) with her (now married) ex-boyfriend. The guy's wife got wind of it and is looking for her while in the process of divorcing him (to make a LONG story short). Now the guy doesn't even call or talk to her anyway (we're guessing he's even got another one on the side)...AND his wife is a third degree blackbelt on top of it, and has been trying to contact my best friend to get both sides of their stories straight.
Moral of the story:

Unless you want DRAMA and LOADS OF IT, STAY THE HELL AWAY.

[12secondv6]

[img]graemlins/wavey.gif[/img] but not going into details

[5SpeedBird]

[quote]Originally posted by majeskyb:

Back to the original poster, I think I would do it, if he's treating her like crap and has no respect for her. Show her how a real man is suppost to treat a woman

Thats where it makes it hard. He doesn't even want her and if he could drop her without losing his house. He would do it. It is his house in sorts. He had it and got it from his Dad before the marriage. But he is really only concerned about losing his stuff.

[And he does have lots of toys. 4-5 4 wheelers, 8 mini bikes. cars n trucks all over.]

Anyone here would get on bended knee for this girl. She is the keeping kind, not just a fling.
I wouldn't do it, if it was just about sex.

I can find all kinds of booty but nothing I want to keep. Just toys to get me by.

I do want to show her how a real man treats a real woman. But the first step is the hardest.

[ November 20, 2004, 02:45 PM: Message edited by: 5SpeedBird ]

[Jerriko's Garage]

Originally posted by Shirl:
:eek: I had to read that twice to understand it. I'm sorry to hear about that. Just goes to show how screwed up EVERYONE IS. I totally agree with your advice to stay the hell away from that situation.

My best friend was having an affair (for about 5 months) with her (now married) ex-boyfriend. The guy's wife got wind of it and is looking for her while in the process of divorcing him (to make a LONG story short). Now the guy doesn't even call or talk to her anyway (we're guessing he's even got another one on the side)...AND his wife is a third degree blackbelt on top of it, and has been trying to contact my best friend to get both sides of their stories straight.
Moral of the story:

Unless you want DRAMA and LOADS OF IT, STAY THE HELL AWAY.

Yes, that was a really Jerry Springer moment there. Funny thing is that when we hang out now, it is not awkward.

[Shirl]

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Originally posted by majeskyb:
[QUOTE]Back to the original poster, I think I would do it, if he's treating her like crap and has no respect for her. Show her how a real man is suppost to treat a woman
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Yes, BUT... she has to make the decision to move on because if he intervenes, there will be BIGGER PROBLEMS than anyone could imagine. People rarely look at the reality side of it and make the mistake of getting involved in something that doesn't involve them.

[majeskyb]

[quote]Originally posted by Shirl:
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Originally posted by majeskyb:

Back to the original poster, I think I would do it, if he's treating her like crap and has no respect for her. Show her how a real man is suppost to treat a woman
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Yes, BUT... she has to make the decision to move on because if he intervenes, there will be BIGGER PROBLEMS than anyone could imagine. People rarely look at the reality side of it and make the mistake of getting involved in something that doesn't involve them.

I totally agree with you there, I just didn't put it in my last post for some reason. Make sure that you wait until they are through before you make your move, even if the guy wouldn't care, so that at least she wouldn't be labled as cheating on him, and he'd have an excuse to get out of it cleanly. Make sure that when they do get a divorce, it's his fault/reason. That way 1)There isn't any of the problems with a divorce like there would if there was cheating involved, and 2)Make sure she knows that you do care about her, even if you don't make your intentions known until after, so she has someone there after. I'd think about being the shoulder to cry on now, but if you are going to be that person, make sure you don't make her do anything while they're married. Don't let you being there for moral support turn into you two doing things while he's gone. He'll have the excuss that he wants to get out of the marriage, he could ream her in court, and she'll have the pain of knwing that she caused the divorce, even if he was deserving it for the way he was treating her. I hope you can read all that, it was more of a rant from me [img]tongue.gif[/img]

[fantomfreke]

i try not to, but it has been known to happen. but its usually way too much drama. just keep this in mind, for every person out there that you would like to hook up with, there is someone tired of putting up with their ****.

[BLLDOGG]

stole my best friend girl of 2 years and now she is my fiancee. it blew up and he increased his drug taking. poor guy :\

[camaro_speedemon]

For every beautiful woman, there is a man sick of her ****.