Why can't it be socially acceptable to sleep with other women while in relationship?

[MustangEater8251]

HONESTLY!

I love my girl, I would never cheat on her cuz it woudl hurt her feelings and I do not want to do that... But damn, I am a man, and a horny one at that. I hate having chances for a little sex, and avoiding it and such. Wouldn't the world be great if we could jsut sleep around a little but save the relationships for just one person?

I admit I woudl be upset if my girl slept around too, but its because society molded us into believing its wrong and makes us pissed off...


sorry for the rant basically, another girl I work with I have to avoid, and I just want BANG BANG BANG

http://www.ebaumsworld.com/bangbangbang.shtml

[95Batmobile]

You've crushed the hearts of many sick sixx members :(

[jc Kyle]

it's socially acceptable if no one finds out.. mua ha ha.. how good are you pimpeater?

btw.. yes guys are hornier than girls, so we should be allowed to cheat.. and not cheat ourselves!! [img]graemlins/banana.gif[/img]

[MrCoffee]

is that about the new girl at work?

[20-psi]

Just imagine your girl wants to do that to you. How would you feel?

[bu-bye]

There is a tribe in africa that does just that. Like once a month or year there is a big party and one big free-for-all. Guys get inline with the girl they want and do their thing with. when they are done they move on to the next girl. That puts new meaning to the words "sloppy seconds". This goes on for a few days I think. BTW they are all married. Their was big drama in the show that I watched because one of the guys did not want to share his wife. I guess she was known as the tribes best. Anyway the guy and his wife got kicked out of the tribe because he was not willing to share his wife. The wife was mad because she wanted to be at the party.

[MustangEater8251]

Originally posted by MrCoffee:
is that about the new girl at work?

Its worse, she has been at my work for liek a year, she just turned 18, I just pulled the, nah its wrong like a girl under 18 being 22 thing, maybe now I can extend it till she is out of shcool [img]smile.gif[/img]

she is cute, but comes on to me alot, and if I was single....


Don't worry I would not cheat on my girl I care enought about her I woudl not put her through the pain. Now if it was socially acceptable to sleep around, then she woudl not be upset, because she would view it as, hey, went and hung out with a friend. Nothing relationshipish.

Jsut a half assed theory whilst drunk about how if I was single I woudl be banging a girlfrom work [img]smile.gif[/img]

[Magnus]

Why don't you just have more sex with your girl?

[speedy-v6-camaro]

Originally posted by bu-bye:
There is a tribe in africa that does just that. Like once a month or year there is a big party and one big free-for-all. Guys get inline with the girl they want and do their thing with. when they are done they move on to the next girl. That puts new meaning to the words "sloppy seconds". This goes on for a few days I think. BTW they are all married. Their was big drama in the show that I watched because one of the guys did not want to share his wife. I guess she was known as the tribes best. Anyway the guy and his wife got kicked out of the tribe because he was not willing to share his wife. The wife was mad because she wanted to be at the party.

...and we wonder why AIDS is spreading like it is in Africa

[12secondv6]

Well, there are things called "open" relationships :D

Some lucky guys out there have g/f's or ex g/f's who are open with "different views."

You have to be COMPLETELY secure in your relationship with the other person before this is attempted.

I have a "friend" who is my ex g/f (anyone coming to e town this weekend will meet/ see her) and she is "of this manner"

We have gone out and met many "new" friends. I know her type of women... she knows mine.

I'm not going into details on the message board. If you have caught me in the chat I've talked about it before.

;) <----- hee hee... LOADS of fun, if you are secure in your relationship for it!

[Fredless]

Originally posted by Magnus:
Why don't you just have more sex with your girl?

Yep the perfect cure. I cheated only once in my life, big mistake.

Even tried the whole player thing, tagging 3 girls for about 5 months, till somehow that situation all exploded.

Oh well, I was never happier then when I knew there was comitment and on demand sex and we both loved each other. I know what I want now...all that sex was not worth everything I went through.

[12secondv6]

Will it ever be socially acceptable.... no.

Don't cheat, that is a sh*t thing to do.

Don't try and be a "player"

Be honest with the person.... and you NEVER know ;)

[Ian]

You can be a player as long as you dont have a girlfriend.

Its a lot of fun......

[memphis_raines]

Originally posted by bu-bye:
There is a tribe in africa that does just that. Like once a month or year there is a big party and one big free-for-all. Guys get inline with the girl they want and do their thing with. when they are done they move on to the next girl. That puts new meaning to the words "sloppy seconds". This goes on for a few days I think. BTW they are all married. Their was big drama in the show that I watched because one of the guys did not want to share his wife. I guess she was known as the tribes best. Anyway the guy and his wife got kicked out of the tribe because he was not willing to share his wife. The wife was mad because she wanted to be at the party.

sloppy seconds? sounds more like filthy fourths :D

and yes, the player thing is good. it's kinda like breakfast....instead of the same sh*t every day, you get the Kellogg's variety pack [img]graemlins/naughty.gif[/img]

and then cheating is always a possibility, as long as you're slick enough to pull it off. but if you're gonna go that route, at least get your side action in another county. it works much better that way.

[LARRYfireBIRD33]

While I fall in-line with social norms and will not cheat on my girlfriend, I still don't understand why men or women alike can't have fun outside of the person they're dating. Isn't the engagement ring what signifies that you want to spend the rest of your life with that person and only that person? In my opinion, if there is no engagement ring you should be able to fool around (both men or women). Too bad this will never be socially acceptable.