Finally happened.

[Beruit]

Well last monday me and my g/f of 18 months broke up. now to many i know thats not that long. but for me at 18-19 and being over a 14 months long then any other relationship it was intense. it was some what mutual going into our second year of college. both wanted to explore what else was out there. last year she went to salisbury MD. and i went to UMBC about 2 hours+ apart, i went out every weekend to see her, and we fought the otehr 3 days or the week and on the 4th we made up so i could go see her. well that didnt cause us to break up. this year she moved to college park only 40 minutes away. but we saw eachother much less, talked less, and i started going to parties, actualy i was the one who got the parties together for my fraternity. now at UMBC a normal party has only 30 -40 peple. its an honors school not much social life. the parties my frat was throwing had on average 50-60 people. something to talk about. and well i realized i watned to see other people. so i we talk a few days after out 18 month anny. and wind up breaking up. shes really upset i was too but was in a great mood the nxt day because i was relieved it was over. so a day or 2 later im out seeing a girl and coem back with a message from my Xg/f saying she hopes i dont date anyone soon and she would be hurt and all this and we planned on being friends after i knwo i know sure whatever but we did we really do love eachother this just isnt the time) so i wind up going out and making out with a girl that has been interested. i get a bunch of crap from my friends asking why i was doing that cuz i just broke up with my girl. my question is.... is that wrong? meeting someone new, no plans of a relationship(girl knows this) but having fun? i was lost because that was the whole reason we broke up. i was just curious if anyone else saw it like i did or the other friends. thanks for letting me... vent? jsut express myself and do u see it my of my friends way. thanks

[mr_man]

Well, I can see why your friends might not think it's a good idea. But if your relationship is over than I see no problem, it's time to move on.

[Mogobs30th]

By no means is what you are doing wrong, because she is probably doing the same thing. You both are probably a little lonely, and ambitious to meet new people (maybe not her, but you certainly are). You are one of the few who have managed to move on with themselves, which im my belief is healthy for the mind.

[BLLDOGG]

i think your friends need to let go of the relationship. you obviously have ;)

[Jerriko]

Face it, you're just a dog!!! [img]graemlins/naughty.gif[/img]

[Ian]

I think your fraternity needs to loosen up. Jesus, i have a girlfriend too, and shes damn hot, and all my brothers are like "yoooooooooo, that girl is all over you, hit that ****!"

lol. oh well.


go get your noodle wet.

[ka50]

don't think too much... go have sex with other girls

[Beruit]

Nice. i knew there were some guys that would agree. thanks for the responces, finally one of my buddies from back home smacked me and asked why i was wasting time talking to him when the girl was waiting for me to call. haha I'll jsut have to see what happens, thanks again guys.

[Antman]

Hey man, Women are strange creatures.

I was with my ex g/f for 4.5 years. We even lived together. Then last year in June, she left me. Well, she said she was only moving out, but things kinda fizzled out after that. Anyways, she then goes to Australia for 6 months.
By now, I've got over it. Moved on.
Anyway, she's been seeing this australian guy since they got back, yet can't stand the thought of someone else loving me!

Wierd eh.

In fact she phoned me a few weeks ago crying telling me she still loves me.
I'm like 'whatever' - cos after all the **** she put me through, I ain't going there again!

[WishIHad$$$]

It's not wrong if you aren't going out...especially if it was a mutual agreement to break up. Take it easy and enjoy the college life without being tied down to anyone. UMBC has some good looking girls to offer. [img]graemlins/naughty.gif[/img]