Well he broke up with me... *depressed*

[casketcrewchick]

HAHAHA guys... U know what is funny? Paul is 36. He has a new vehicle, condo, but his job is so-so. Hes trying to get a higher paying one... I know it sounds like i am talking about someone my age. I do like older men. I started seeing paul because he was established with himself and happy with it at the time-- this sounds horrible but i was going with this guy for almost 4 years and i broke up with him to be with paul cause he was so much more mature than who i was with (not to mention all me and the guy i was with fought constantly)... i dont even want to get into that cause its a big mess and not to mention a LONG story.

Anyways, today he started a conversation with me at work. very rare... but i didnt want to talk to him. remember-- i am just ignoring him. lol he was like yelling Hello at me today and i looked over and gave him a blank stare u know and then went back to working... but then he came the hell over and was talking to me like nothing happened-- smiling and laughing. ugh.

I know i am young but i am looking towards finding the right person and then settleing (spelling?) down... right now i am bummed and need a break from all this. lol

I read what he wrote in the card and its not as negative as it sounds... he really does care for me but its so sad he didnt love me back as much as i did him... He wrote something like my only regret is i am not that person (someone to love me as much as i love them) and that he hurt me with all this.

But still, like i said. I am ignoring him. even tho hes like dont be a stranger, send me an email... ummm nope-- i am gonna ignore. mwahahahahahahaa....

[casketcrewchick]

BTW i just wish i didnt feel anything... love is really a pain in my ***. LOL

[12secondv6]

Sorry to hear this :(

Been there and done that.

Sigh, it always sucks each time :(

Best thing to do is surround yourself w/ good friends and make new ones!

Come to E town next weekend, a couple of us jersey people will be there. Join us [img]smile.gif[/img]

[Turbo V6 Camaro]

Originally posted by 12secondv6:
Sorry to hear this :(

Been there and done that.

Sigh, it always sucks each time :(

Best thing to do is surround yourself w/ good friends and make new ones!

Come to E town next weekend, a couple of us jersey people will be there. Join us [img]smile.gif[/img]

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i see were this is going ;)

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[Turbo V6 Camaro]

Originally posted by casketcrewchick:
HAHAHA guys... U know what is funny? Paul is 36. He has a new vehicle, condo, but his job is so-so. Hes trying to get a higher paying one... I know it sounds like i am talking about someone my age. I do like older men. I started seeing paul because he was established with himself and happy with it at the time-- this sounds horrible but i was going with this guy for almost 4 years and i broke up with him to be with paul cause he was so much more mature than who i was with (not to mention all me and the guy i was with fought constantly)... i dont even want to get into that cause its a big mess and not to mention a LONG story.

Anyways, today he started a conversation with me at work. very rare... but i didnt want to talk to him. remember-- i am just ignoring him. lol he was like yelling Hello at me today and i looked over and gave him a blank stare u know and then went back to working... but then he came the hell over and was talking to me like nothing happened-- smiling and laughing. ugh.

I know i am young but i am looking towards finding the right person and then settleing (spelling?) down... right now i am bummed and need a break from all this. lol

I read what he wrote in the card and its not as negative as it sounds... he really does care for me but its so sad he didnt love me back as much as i did him... He wrote something like my only regret is i am not that person (someone to love me as much as i love them) and that he hurt me with all this.

But still, like i said. I am ignoring him. even tho hes like dont be a stranger, send me an email... ummm nope-- i am gonna ignore. mwahahahahahahaa....

yes dont ever drop your guard on that i think he's letting you have some space and making it knowen that in fact he knows you now, and is giving you what you was missing to get you back, then slowy the attention will fade away again

BTW his "friend", has he been over there more ?now ?

[casketcrewchick]

Oh the female... no he hasnt spoken to her AND when i was there over the weekend she didnt even call which was wierd. usually she calls all the time when i am there and sometimes he tells me to answer the phone which surprises her on the other end. LOL

I think he does feel real bad and maybe thinks he shouldnt have done it but I am not going to talk to him. yesterday i had no choice he came over to me to talk and it was wierd cause he hardly talks to me at work.

He usually will contact me by thursday or friday by email or messenger but this week i dont care what he does. I will ignore his messages cause he would read all of mine and hardly reply to them... i will give him the same in return.

Englishtown... where is that? i got an SLP flyer last year for that. I ignored it. LOL Hmmm might wanna check it out...

[BadAzzRS]

So casket crew chick, do you find mullets sexy?

[imported_admin]

Originally posted by BadAzzRS:
So casket crew chick, do you find mullets sexy?

Okay jerk, that's good for a week-long suspension. You've posted nothing but flaming BS posts in the past two weeks and pissed a lot of members off in the process. Suffer and die.

[ravenp]

I'm sorry to hear you're hurting...

Don't be mistaken though...he's not confused about his feelings... he wants to be single.

Look at the facts, he is acquiring some key possessions,(condo, car) and trying to get a better paying job... he's in bachelor mode and having an emotional bond with a woman right now is slowing him down.

It's not his fault... it's not your fault...it's very normal... unfortunately for you, your timing in this case is bad.

My advice is walk away and don't hang around for 'nookie'. You are very emotionally attached to this guy, so you won't be able to just fool around, and you'll end up getting hurt more!

Please do yourself a favour and walk away for a few months. Date some other guys and when you're back on your feet, see if he wants to be friends with you.

Good luck.

[Seppo Kaitainen]

Sorry for what has happened to you.

But he seems to think you now have a 'friends w/ benefits' relationship. Since you broke up, but still hooked up w/ him. Next time he starts talking to you like nothing happened you need to take him aside and lay down the law. Basically saying he can't have his cake and eat it too. That and let him know he really hurt you.

If he doesn't want to be in a relationship w/ you. Then you are better off w/o him. There are plenty of other fish in the sea. You'll find another one when you least expect it.

[hawgs]

Originally posted by Stefan:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by BadAzzRS:
So casket crew chick, do you find mullets sexy?

Okay jerk, that's good for a week-long suspension. You've posted nothing but flaming BS posts in the past two weeks and pissed a lot of members off in the process. Suffer and die. </font>[/QUOTE]damn... I had a couple outstanding posts for him. guess we'll never know. :( ;)

[12secondv6]

Originally posted by casketcrewchick:
Englishtown... where is that? i got an SLP flyer last year for that. I ignored it. LOL Hmmm might wanna check it out...

www.racewaypark.com

[pontiac nino]

Originally posted by Stefan:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by BadAzzRS:
So casket crew chick, do you find mullets sexy?

Okay jerk, that's good for a week-long suspension. You've posted nothing but flaming BS posts in the past two weeks and pissed a lot of members off in the process. Suffer and die. </font>[/QUOTE]LMAO!!! haha too funny!! [img]graemlins/rofl.gif[/img]

btw older is not necessarily better, just because you are older doesn't necessarily mean you are more mature, hell you can be 40 and act like you're 20 ;)

[SirShaun]

HE CRIED!? Get someone who wont cry. He was the one to say the **** he shouldnt be crying. Get over em and find a new nookie man. Try to get one that doesnt cry over things he says....

[hawgs]

Originally posted by SirShaun:
HE CRIED!? Get someone who wont cry. He was the one to say the **** he shouldnt be crying. Get over em and find a new nookie man. Try to get one that doesnt cry over things he says....

Most intelligent post of the day.


"Find some new nookie man" ...huh?

It's a girl that made this post, hence the CHICK part of her screen name, so you aren't supposed to call her man. Do you even know what nookie is? Why would a hetrosexual woman "find new nookie" man?