Need some advice

[StrtRacer98]

it could go either way really but i see where ur comin from!

[CoreyCamaro]

We could give you advice but we need to see some pics first. We need to see if it's worth it. If you don't have pics go hide in the bushes in front of her house with your camera.

[asdf1234]

Send her my way.

I'll take care of it, if you know what I mean.

But seriously, send her my way.

[Fbody3400]

[img]graemlins/rofl.gif[/img] Whatever happened to the good ole hookup and not worry about it the next day thing

[Mogobs30th]

Originally posted by Fbody3400:
Well... after a long semi-pointless phone conversation that girls seem to love. I basically couldn't dig up enough *******ness in me to be that blunt. She said something along the lines where do you think its gonna go from here? I replied with, "Well, I think your cool and all and I like you, but i'm not in the mood for a relationship right now really." Then all of a sudden, I get this feeling of ouch. So i continued, "but it'd be cool if we kept hanging out, maybe my feelings will change." I felt extreme disappointment within myself, my oppurtunity was there. I'm thinking things will just sorta blow over now. Sometimes i hate knowing what to say...

In all honesty, if you said something like that, I think there is a part of you not really wanting to be alone either. You may think you want to be alone, but you aren't really sure. ;)

[BLLDOGG]

i think for the situation you found yourself in when she asked herself, you handled it well.

Originally posted by Mogobs30th:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Fbody3400:
Well... after a long semi-pointless phone conversation that girls seem to love. I basically couldn't dig up enough *******ness in me to be that blunt. She said something along the lines where do you think its gonna go from here? I replied with, "Well, I think your cool and all and I like you, but i'm not in the mood for a relationship right now really." Then all of a sudden, I get this feeling of ouch. So i continued, "but it'd be cool if we kept hanging out, maybe my feelings will change." I felt extreme disappointment within myself, my oppurtunity was there. I'm thinking things will just sorta blow over now. Sometimes i hate knowing what to say...

In all honesty, if you said something like that, I think there is a part of you not really wanting to be alone either. You may think you want to be alone, but you aren't really sure. ;) </font>[/QUOTE][img]graemlins/rofl.gif[/img] [img]graemlins/rofl.gif[/img]

[95fbirdkid]

when me and my current gf started doing our thing she wasnt ready for a relationship either. she flat out told me she was into me but said she wanted to keep doing what we were doing and see where things went. I was into her enough i didnt mind waiting, it took about 5 months of waiting and now our 1 month is coming up this weekend.

moral of the story = if she's really into you, she shouldnt mind waiting if you tell her you arnt quite ready for a relationship yet. If she's not willing to wait, she isnt worth asking to wait.

If she says she cant wait and you try to force yourself into a relationship, it will end up bad.

[ March 07, 2006, 06:09 PM: Message edited by: 95fbirdkid ]

[Fbody3400]

The thing is i'm not really wanting her to wait. I just want to be out of the whole situation. Judging from the past few days, I think things are starting to go the way i hoped for.

[camaro_speedemon]

Originally posted by 95fbirdkid:
when me and my current gf started doing our thing she wasnt ready for a relationship either. she flat out told me she was into me but said she wanted to keep doing what we were doing and see where things went. I was into her enough i didnt mind waiting, it took about 5 months of waiting and now our 1 month is coming up this weekend.

moral of the story = if she's really into you, she shouldnt mind waiting if you tell her you arnt quite ready for a relationship yet. If she's not willing to wait, she isnt worth asking to wait.

If she says she cant wait and you try to force yourself into a relationship, it will end up bad.

Dude, 5 months! I woulda been out by like a month if nothing happened.

I've done the waiting and see what happens game several times. It worked once, but all the other times it just didn't. I finally learned that it's just not worth it. I don't have time to sit around and hope something might happen.

[Fbody3400]

Booooo [img]graemlins/rant.gif[/img] she is the type that when she calls, if you don't pick up, she calls back 5, or 4, or 2 minutes later.

Hahaha damn, caught off guard. Didn't even think about it. I didn't answer then BAM, instant message.

[MTMike]

Don't be a dummy... put it on her tummy [img]graemlins/love.gif[/img]

[Stock98camaro]

I think we need pictures first. ;)