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    Need some advice

    Alright, well saturday night i guess you could say i went on a 'date' with this pretty cute girl from my school. I like her, but i'm really not in the mood for a relationship right now. She seems to like me a lot and my ******* self keeps leading her on making her think i like her. I don't try to, but just some of the things i say make it seem like i'm really into her. I don't know how to tell her that i don't want a relationship right now...

    I guess i could just straight up tell her that, but i think it'd make me seem like an *******.

    Anybody got any advice or ways that you've dealt with situations like this? I mean this happened to me before, but the girl was not nearly as nice as this girl so i just stopped answering her phone calls.
    Black \'94 Trans Am A4- SLP CAI & Loudmouth<br />Red \'93 Firebird A4- Ram Air under the WS6 hood, !cat, exhaust.
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    why dont you want a relationahip with her if she seems so nice?
    2000 3.8 A4 Pewter Camaro

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    • #3
      I'm just not in the mood to have a relationship right now. I love the freedom of waking up and not having to call anybody or do anything. I guess i'm just in a solo sort of party mood right now.
      Black \'94 Trans Am A4- SLP CAI & Loudmouth<br />Red \'93 Firebird A4- Ram Air under the WS6 hood, !cat, exhaust.

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      • #4
        Just tell her straight up, nothings worse than leading her on. Straight up is the best thing to do.
        -Rick<br /><br />Bright White \'95 Firebird Convertible 3.4L A4 - Flowmaster American Thunder Cat-back, Zexel Torsen Posi-traction, Black Checkered Stripes, Clear Corners, Misc. Appearance Mods.<br /> <a href=\"http://www.cardomain.com/ride/2077741\" target=\"_blank\">http://www.cardomain.com/ride/2077741</a> <br /><br />AIM ID: AxSlane

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        • #5
          Yeah. I just feel bad for leading her on, but I really wasn't trying to. I'm thinking straight up is the only way to go...
          Black \'94 Trans Am A4- SLP CAI & Loudmouth<br />Red \'93 Firebird A4- Ram Air under the WS6 hood, !cat, exhaust.

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          • #6
            Telling her straight up is probably the best idea. Tell her you think she is attractive but youre not in the mood for a serious relationship. But hit it and quit it first! Good Luck.

            '95 3.8L A4 PGM. & '95 LT1 M6 PGM. :burn:

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            • #7
              Originally posted by gugdathug3:
              Telling her straight up is probably the best idea. Tell her you think she is attractive but youre not in the mood for a serious relationship. But hit it and quit it first! Good Luck.
              haha that wouldn't go down to well, my school is pretty small. Girls from other schools are still open for that if needed.

              I'm pretty sure when it comes time i'm gonna say something along the lines of, "I do like you and i think your really cute but i'm sorry, i'm just not in the mood for a relationship right now"
              Black \'94 Trans Am A4- SLP CAI & Loudmouth<br />Red \'93 Firebird A4- Ram Air under the WS6 hood, !cat, exhaust.

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              • #8
                Well... after a long semi-pointless phone conversation that girls seem to love. I basically couldn't dig up enough *******ness in me to be that blunt. She said something along the lines where do you think its gonna go from here? I replied with, "Well, I think your cool and all and I like you, but i'm not in the mood for a relationship right now really." Then all of a sudden, I get this feeling of ouch. So i continued, "but it'd be cool if we kept hanging out, maybe my feelings will change." I felt extreme disappointment within myself, my oppurtunity was there. I'm thinking things will just sorta blow over now. Sometimes i hate knowing what to say...
                Black \'94 Trans Am A4- SLP CAI & Loudmouth<br />Red \'93 Firebird A4- Ram Air under the WS6 hood, !cat, exhaust.

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                • #9
                  yeah sh!t sucks... now she knows you dont want a relationship she will probably start acting weird around you.
                  *Matt


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                  • #10
                    Doesn't matter how you say it, it's not going to come out right and you'll never really know she took it.

                    If you want to be single but like here why not have both? Why do we always conform to I got a girl and now I'm under house arrest?

                    Keep her around, do your own thing and take her out. If she wants to cage you in, simply tell her (nicely) how you feel about that. If she's cool she'll completely understand, if she has a fit then it's all on her and your not the one breaking it off...

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                    • #11
                      i'm an athlete but this is the hardest game of my life [img]graemlins/rofl.gif[/img] I can play basketball, hockey, baseball, soccer, I mean you name it i got some skill in it, but damn haha
                      Black \'94 Trans Am A4- SLP CAI & Loudmouth<br />Red \'93 Firebird A4- Ram Air under the WS6 hood, !cat, exhaust.

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by StrtRacer98:
                        yeah sh!t sucks... now she knows you dont want a relationship she will probably start acting weird around you.
                        No, she's gonna want him even more.
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                        • #13
                          dude im in the same boat as you. its funny cause i've been through the same situation with this girl now 3 times.

                          The other night i slept with her. ****ed her, blablabla and spent the night with her. woke up. acted as just friends with her. lmao. She really wants me. but everytime i just tell her that i dont wnat ot be in a relationship. and that right now i cant afford any distractions.

                          but she keeps coming back anyways. lol . we have 2 day relationships the she hates me for the rest of the month.

                          but yea see if its cool that you guys become friends and just occationally hook up. she might not like the idea at first. but dont force anything upon her. just be her friend. let her do the flirting. just be easy. she'll eventually give in every now and then.
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                          • #14
                            edit to my above post..

                            but yea see if its cool that you guys become friends and just occationally hook up. she might not like the idea at first. but dont force anything upon her. just be her friend. let her do the flirting. just be easy. she'll eventually give in every now and then.
                            DONT ACTUALLY tell her you want to occationally hook up. that'll just make you look bad. you get the idea
                            96 Camaro M5. Dark metallic gree (?dont know the offical color name)<br />Home made Intake :: Headers, 3inch headers back to Flowmaster muffler :: spec stage 3 clutch Now installed, waiting for 3.42\'s and LSD next month<br /><a href=\"http://photobucket.com/albums/y192/RiceEatingCamaro/?action=view&current=newcar.jpg\" target=\"_blank\">My Car</a> <br /><br />Totalled Car.<br /><a href=\"http://bellsouthpwp.net/s/k/sk8er305/\" target=\"_blank\">96 CamaroRS</a>

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by camaro_speedemon:
                              </font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by StrtRacer98:
                              yeah sh!t sucks... now she knows you dont want a relationship she will probably start acting weird around you.
                              No, she's gonna want him even more. </font>[/QUOTE]That is so true

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