Virginity

[1998silverbird]

Originally posted by teal99camaro:
to me sex is sex, making love is different...

depends on your feelings towards the girl..

[Fbody3400]

I was 16, and I am still am 16. I'm still with the girl, and we both really love, yes I dare use the word at such a "young" age, each other. The first time(I dont even know if it could be considered a time) was really special, even though it was special for not too long [img]graemlins/naughty.gif[/img] .

We really weren't stupid about it either, she was a virgin, I was one too, but she went on birth control before we even did it. Boy, that day she told me she was going on birth control got me excited, I knew something good was coming!

[Trunks]

wow their are more "still a virgins" than i thought there would be. I'm glad to know i'm not the only one (age 18) and that PLAN (plans have a way of changing tho) to keep it that way til i'm married (i'm sorta religious and its the way i was brought up.)

[Trunks]

Originally posted by Mighty Thor:
I practiced abstinence and waited till I found the right woman who I want to marry and give my virginity too.

Plus, I was also waiting for God's call to see if He wanted me to be his Priest.

Thor, you are my new best friend! we have so views alike! It'd be nice to talk to you about stuff sometimes [img]smile.gif[/img] .

[Fredless]

Originally posted by teal99camaro:
to me sex is sex, making love is different...

werd. I lost mine at 16

[shenanigans]

I don't understand the whole wait to marriage, but then again I am sure the peopel who do don't understand me. [img]smile.gif[/img]

Either way good point someone brought up the making love and having sex point.

For your first time, make love... then later you can be a whore [img]graemlins/naughty.gif[/img]

As for diseases/pregnancy and all that just be smart an take measures to protect against that. Granted those measures may be bad if you are religous(especially catholic)

['98 BlackBird]

Originally posted by andrew.brandon:
20 here and still a virgin. I guess it helps keep all my money going to the car [img]tongue.gif[/img]

[comment about april edited out by 95fbirdkid]

history or not, I'm not gonna let you make personal attacks in here - 95fbirdkid

[ February 03, 2005, 03:05 PM: Message edited by: 95fbirdkid ]

[j_downey50]

Originally posted by AaronG:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by j_downey50:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by CAMAROWIDBASS:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by 4thgenowner:
Who voted 12-14? :rolleyes:

I should have waited, it messed things up.

that would be me :D </font>[/QUOTE]Me too. I was 13 (almost 14), she was 17 (barely). </font>[/QUOTE]baby sitter? [img]graemlins/naughty.gif[/img] </font>[/QUOTE]Girlfriend. ;)
I've always been attracted to older girls. After her and I broke up, I was with an 18-year-old.

[BLLDOGG]

i was 13 :D

['98 BlackBird]

Originally posted by 95fbirdkid:

history or not, I'm not gonna let you make personal attacks in here on April - 95fbirdkid

I am sorry for that rude comment. That was very immature. Just having a bad day.

Now back to the regular post................................

[RancidCamaro]

Now, don't take me wrong on this - but a lot of people who say they want to remain virgins are the ones that have never had the opportunity to get any action.

Of course I'm not saying that's the case with the people on here. I'm not saying it's a bad thing either.

However, as long as you do things responsibly, fishing for that next night of sex from a new girl can be amazingly challenging/fun. Accidents happen, though.

Probably why I consider it only to be appropriate to sleep around when you're relatively young (18 - 22). You'd be surprised how much you will find out about yourself sexually and emotionally from having multiple sexual partners.

I've had 10+ girls, and I'm 19. I always used protection, except with my current girl (because I'm actually in love with her/she's on the pill/she's disease free). I discovered a lot about what I like in a woman, what kind of games women play, and what to go for. I'd suggest it to any young man to learn how women work, how to please them, and how to stay with the one that is important to you.

I think I'll sign a book deal :D

[95fbirdkid]

Now, don't take me wrong on this - but a lot of people who say they want to remain virgins are the ones that have never had the opportunity to get any action.

eh, this is true, but not always the case... i've had girls try'n to jump the bone before, but i'm not really in to the girls who want it right after they meet you.

[mike h]

Originally posted by RancidCamaro:
Now, don't take me wrong on this - but a lot of people who say they want to remain virgins are the ones that have never had the opportunity to get any action.

ouch, that hurt. [img]tongue.gif[/img]

[camaro_speedemon]

20 here, to a fat chick. I was desperate, she was horny.

One of the biggest life changing events in my life. After that I grew a set of balls, and wasn't so dorky. You can always tell a virgin by the way they act. True story.

[camaro_speedemon]

Originally posted by Ike:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Mighty Thor:
I practiced abstinence and waited till I found the right woman who I want to marry and give my virginity too.

Plus, I was also waiting for God's call to see if He wanted me to be his Priest.

I too think abstinence is best.

It is so hard to explain to people how great it is to be with your one and only. And to know you've waited until you've pledged to love on another for the rest of your lives is (one of) the greatest gift you can give. </font>[/QUOTE]You know, I used to think that way to. Then I realized that the chances of me finding a virgin who I would marry were slim to non. And honestly, I'm glad I didn't wait. My wife-to-be has been with one other person, and I dont know how I could handle that if I was a virgin, just way too much pressure to be able to preform. And I probably wouldn't have even dated her either.

BTW I can't even imagine losing my virginity to a virgin. It would be just weird. I've been with a virgin before, and trust me, they are NOT anything special. My first time sucked, it lasted maybe 5 seconds. When I had sex with the virgin, it took forever to even get it in, and I was left blue balled because she hurt too much. I'll take a well broken in slut over another virgin any day.