More suspicions of my wife

[97chevycamaro]

People say im crazy and paranoid but tell me if this **** is normal

1-I call at work to home and she always sounds busy and trys to get me off the phone in like 2 secs

2-If i tell her im coming home early she sounds scared and worried.Ive tried sneaking home but i never catch anything, even then shes like "oh my, umm why are you home"

3-Shes been a ***** lately, keeps telling me shes only with me cause shes desperate and doesnt wanna be alone, then she will tell me Im mean to her. Even though Ive never said or did anything mean or offensive towards her at any point i can recall in our marriage, sure there is the occasional fight but i come home from 14 hrs of work and still take care of her and stuff. **** it

[ February 02, 2005, 06:27 PM: Message edited by: 97chevycamaro ]

[Mighty Thor]

That show Cheaters might help.

Sorry, being sarcastic there. Seriously, it could be a phase. Communication is very crucial at this moment if you want to save your marriage.

But to make sure there is nothing going on like cheating. You can hire a P.I. or have a friend who she doesn't know, follow her around. Or just come home unexpectedly.

I hate to say this, but people who do cheat tend to have those symptoms that you described above.

Good Luck.

[silvachris1]

Or she could just be real secretive to lead up to Valentines Day. Maybe she's got something planned. I know it doesn't sound all that likely, but just covering another side. It might not be anything, she might just be dealing with something she hasn't told you about. It's hard to say, but yeah, I'd be suspicious too.

[CAMAROWIDBASS]

Originally posted by 97chevycamaro:

keeps telling me shes only with me cause shes desperate and doesnt wanna be alone

To me that right there crosses the line.

If there was no chiildren involved in this i would just chunk the deuce, kick her out of my house and go hit up the bars/clubs.

IF there is children involved then seep marriage conseling for you and her.

[V8 Killer]

Hire a P.I :D

[97chevycamaro]

2 kids for us, Shes been doing this for like a month now. Shes sneaky, always seems to be one step ahead of me. I can never catch her in or around the act, P.I sounds like a good idea though

[FireFighter]

How long have you been married? That really sucks man.

[shenanigans]

Call her out and tell her what you feel is going on.


See what happens.

[CAMAROWIDBASS]

Originally posted by 97chevycamaro:
2 kids for us, Shes been doing this for like a month now. Shes sneaky, always seems to be one step ahead of me. I can never catch her in or around the act, P.I sounds like a good idea though

Well since i see there are 2 children involved this make you think before you take any rational steps.

how old are the children?

[BirdOfPrey01]

Oh man, that sounds like my ex-girlfriend.

1.) Very sneaky.
2.) Gives you a feeling like she is always startled.
3.) Says she doesnt want to be alone.
4.) Acts like a b*tch

1.) My ex-girlfriend was very sneaky, and I could never prove anything. She was a major b*tch when i hung out with my friend and I know why...

Because "my" friend knew "her" friends and she was scared "my" friend would find out whe was screwin this one guy. So she acted like a major b*tch when I was around my friend.

2.)Everytime I asked her where she was or what she was doing, the answer was always... Nothing, just at a friends, she gave little to no detail most of the time. Then she got angry when I tried to get more details.

3.)She never wants to be alone... this was more like a sympathy thing. Feel sorry for her, it makes her feel better since she feel guilty, its a way to make you say everything is okay!
Yes, its a dirty trick. There are other ones out there like... "I dont feel good", "I'm Tired", "I'm Scared"
Don't fall for them.

4.) Don't be suprised when you catch her playing the game with you and you basically call her out on it. She will become a major b*tch. All women do, they can't stand losing, or being told they are wrong, they can't stand knowing they got cought with their hand in the cookie jar. (red handed)

People say guys are sore losers and cry babies... No women are the worst. They become psychotic, break your stuff, destroy your property, they even try to fight you or break you and your friends apart.

But don't jump on what I have to say, I can only judge women after living with them or talking with them for a while. Not just by hearing someones story.

Maybe your wife is really having problems or maybe she really is having an affair. The only way to find out is not to worry about her, but yourself.

Back yourself up in your mind. Be ready for if she leaves you.

Let me ask you something... if you could decribe your wife in stereotype or being, what would she be?

Prissy/Stuck Up?
White Trashy Type?
Always Depressed?
Attention Hog?
Flirting type?

Does she work? What type of work does she do?
Is she happy to see you when you come home?

I could maybe help you find out. But its your choice, you can either ask her to her face whats going on... Or you can play sneaky games...

Either way, if she loves you she will be okay with either of the choices you make... [img]smile.gif[/img]

[4thgenowner]

Originally posted by BirdOfPrey01:
Oh man, that sounds like my ex-girlfriend.

1.) Very sneaky.
2.) Gives you a feeling like she is always startled.
3.) Says she doesnt want to be alone.
4.) Acts like a b*tch

1.) My ex-girlfriend was very sneaky, and I could never prove anything. She was a major b*tch when i hung out with my friend and I know why...

Because "my" friend knew "her" friends and she was scared "my" friend would find out whe was screwin this one guy. So she acted like a major b*tch when I was around my friend.

2.)Everytime I asked her where she was or what she was doing, the answer was always... Nothing, just at a friends, she gave little to no detail most of the time. Then she got angry when I tried to get more details.

3.)She never wants to be alone... this was more like a sympathy thing. Feel sorry for her, it makes her feel better since she feel guilty, its a way to make you say everything is okay!
Yes, its a dirty trick. There are other ones out there like... "I dont feel good", "I'm Tired", "I'm Scared"
Don't fall for them.

4.) Don't be suprised when you catch her playing the game with you and you basically call her out on it. She will become a major b*tch. All women do, they can't stand losing, or being told they are wrong, they can't stand knowing they got cought with their hand in the cookie jar. (red handed)

That sounds like my ex ex ex ex-girlfriend, but I caught her cheating in the act. Thanks to my very very good female friend.
I would be careful.

[ February 02, 2005, 07:13 PM: Message edited by: 4thgenowner ]

[97chevycamaro]

Originally posted by BirdOfPrey01:

Let me ask you something... if you could decribe your wife in stereotype or being, what would she be?

Prissy/Stuck Up?
White Trashy Type?
Always Depressed?
Attention Hog?
Flirting type?

Does she work? What type of work does she do?
Is she happy to see you when you come home?

I could maybe help you find out. But its your choice, you can either ask her to her face whats going on... Or you can play sneaky games...

Either way, if she loves you she will be okay with either of the choices you make... [img]smile.gif[/img]

Shes always a ***** and depressed. She works, at a gas station. what you described about your ex sounds just like her. Its weird sometimes she will be happy im home, other times she wont even move off the couch and kiss me. Anything you can do to help or offer tips would be grateful. Im gonna try to get out an hour early tonight to see i can run into anything. I called her and told her id be here till midnight and im gonna leave at 9pm. Our kids are 3 and 13 months. Oh yeah and everytime i ask her wehre she is or what shes doinf she shes i dont trust her and im a *******

[V8 Killer]

Maybe its like a mental disorder like Bipolar or something.Do some research on that.

[5SpeedBird]

she do any drugs???
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Meet this super hot chick at a party the other night, letting everyone have a turn. After she does some lines. She was saying anyone to get her a line, would get some. I didn't even know the people just n and out but she was hot. 2-3 kids, married.

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It would also cost money like a PI but you would have the stuff to keep. But couldn't use some sort of GPS device to track her routes. Maybe not catch anything then, but be able to check it out later. establish a pattern.

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Just think about all the kind of yahoos that visit gas stations that could be tempting her with things.

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best n worst case scenario, she has a
"girl friend" Think positive.

[5SpeedBird]

A buddy has a wife similar to that and she eats all his pills. He has a bad back problem and get tons of pain pills. oxycotin or a few perks go missing all the time.