More suspicions of my wife

[Coriya71]

Since I don't think anyone as asked...

what makes you think she is cheating on you... Ever thought maybe you are reading too much into it and focusing too much in the back of your mind at work that stuff is happening that really isn't?

wanna get real crazy long time ago I saw some sort of bodily fluid testing kit so you can see if there is another man's spooge on your g/fs clothes..

But Eric, how many times in the past has a person suspected and it not be true. If she isn't she wants out anyways.

3-Shes been a ***** lately, keeps telling me shes only with me cause shes desperate and doesnt wanna be alone, then she will tell me Im mean to her.

If someone told me this, I'd be out the door.

[mike h]

Originally posted by Riggs:

my idea? BE SMART. check her cell phone, see who she is calling and who is calling her ona regular basis. she must take showers and use the bathroom so u gotta plenty of time to take a look. find out if theres a pattern from times called, or certain days, etc. ESTABLISH A PATTERN. if nothing in the phone, check online, find out her password and look thru her emials if you think she might have found someone online. do somehitng cute like give her a massage (while ur standing over) and shes logging in...JUST BE INTELLIGENT ABOUT IT! trust me man, ive bene in your boat with girlfirneds and there are ALWAYS ways to find out whats going on.

why hire a P.I. when you can do it yourself? [img]tongue.gif[/img]

[V8 Killer]

Because he has a job......

[mike h]

Originally posted by V8 Killer:
Because he has a job......

i was poking fun at the fact that he had this elaborate plan to spy on someone. i guess some people dont have a sense of humor.

[shenanigans]

Originally posted by Coriya71:
But Eric, how many times in the past has a person suspected and it not be true. If she isn't she wants out anyways.

</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr /> 3-Shes been a ***** lately, keeps telling me shes only with me cause shes desperate and doesnt wanna be alone, then she will tell me Im mean to her.

If someone told me this, I'd be out the door. </font>[/QUOTE]I agree may be having some problems thats why I said talk to her about it. I'm no marriage counselor but I watch them on TV ;) , they all talk about communication.

Its a marriage, not an him vs. her thing, shoudl try and work the crap out instead of going out the door. Not sure you guys have noticed it but there is a kid involved too.

As for the hiring a detective and crap, just telling the dude to take a deep breath, think it out before he does it. I just think its possibly a frivoulous way to drop like $1k.

[GreenDragon]

Originally posted by shenanigans:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Coriya71:
But Eric, how many times in the past has a person suspected and it not be true. If she isn't she wants out anyways.

</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr /> 3-Shes been a ***** lately, keeps telling me shes only with me cause shes desperate and doesnt wanna be alone, then she will tell me Im mean to her.

If someone told me this, I'd be out the door. </font>[/QUOTE]I agree may be having some problems thats why I said talk to her about it. I'm no marriage counselor but I watch them on TV ;) , they all talk about communication.

Its a marriage, not an him vs. her thing, shoudl try and work the crap out instead of going out the door. Not sure you guys have noticed it but there is a kid involved too.

As for the hiring a detective and crap, just telling the dude to take a deep breath, think it out before he does it. I just think its possibly a frivoulous way to drop like $1k. </font>[/QUOTE]You watch to much off Dr Phil [img]tongue.gif[/img] But thats very true about communication.If she detects that your being sneaky,she's going to hide what ever she's doing,If she's doing somthing.

[camaro_speedemon]

Ever thought about hiring a PI? If she's being sneaky, they'll be able to find out.

[vanbibber]

thats already been thrown out there/\/\/\/\

[shenanigans]

Man you guys are all quick to spend this guy's money...


Just be a man and talk to her... worst she will throw a small tantrim. Another thing I hear about in relationships is "Trust"

Somehow buying a survelliance system and paying someone to tail your wife does not show "Trust"

[silvachris1]

Talk to her about it. Don't have to tell her you think she's cheating or anything. Just tell her it hurts when she says you treat her bad, and that you do everything and would do anything for her, and ask her what's been going on cause she's been acting different lately. See if there's anything you can do. Let her know that it hurts your feelings that she's been treating you this way man. But don't give her the impression that you think she's cheating. See what comes up man. It may be nothing, it may be devastating, but it may give you some answers.

[95fbirdkid]

ok this is getting too long and just repeating itself.

to sum it up your options that were given are:

1) talk to her
2) survalence system
3) hire PI.

personally i would say talk to her about it, but i'm not in your shoes. I think you just need to think it over and decide what you think will work best for you.