Wife Just saw some mother

[camaro_speedemon]

Originally posted by Mogobs30th:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by camaro_speedemon:
Beat the sh*t out of her ~10 year old daughter in Kmart.

The kid ran up behind her mother and went "Booo" in a playful manner. Her mom turned around, cocked back and slapped the kid across the face so hard it knocked her to the floor.

The store manager was following the lady around because I guess they she causing a comotion earlier. He saw it and went after the mom and had to pull her off her kid. My wife went and pulled the kid away.

The f*cked up part was the mom was still trying to kick her daughter as the manager was pulling her away. My wife called the cops once the kid was safe and the hauled they mother away in handcuffs.

I hope that ***** rots in f*ken jail :mad:

That is overboard. But I am in no way scared of knocking the **** out of a kid. I'll let you take this story as a counter to what you have told.

I was in Steak and Shake last night with a friend that helped me get my car from the hospital after I had another ER stay (17th time in 2 years, for the same problem). We are sitting behind a family of people, father, mother, and what looks to be like a 4 year old boy. From the start, the kid looks like he is nothing but trouble. He is crying about his food, throwing food at his father, spilling drinks on the table, and that was all within 5 minutes of me sitting at the table. Throughout the course of me ordering food and getting it, this little brat also has gone behind the counter where the cooks are at, and tugged on the waitresses apron, spilling all the straws and napkins she had. All the parents did was tell the kid to sit down, sit down, quit playing around, sit down, etc, while the kid completely ignored them. Once the kid spilled his drink for what had to be the third time while standing in the seat he was supposed to be sitting in, his mom yells "STOP IT AND SIT DOWN!!!". What did the kid do?? He grabbed a spoon, and THREW it at his mothers head from no more than a foot away. That spoon bounced so hard off her head that the spoon landed on the table ACROSS from me. The only thing that happened to that kid the whole time was that he was grabbed and forcibly sat down on his fathers side of the table. And when they left, everyone was a little more relieved.

NOW...after saying this, do you really think that simply talking to a child will work in ALL instances with ALL children? I don't really think so. I think some kids need the **** knocked out of them every once in a while, brings them back to earth. And I will say again, kids that simply play around and act a little goofy don't deserve to be kicked in the side for that, its the kids that bounce spoons off their mothers heads that do. There are times when you sit a child in the corner for things like going into a parents bedroom when told not to, or accidently breaking something, and there is a time to leave a red hand print on their face, like when they throw silverware at me.

But it all comes down to the parent. It depends on how well they are raising their kids and what kind of psycho s*** they have on their hands. From the few members I have met from this board, some of them have kids, and their kids are well mannered, nice, and all around good, and in no way have any reason to get hit. Sure, kids will do something at some point, and probably more than once, that they aren't supposed to do, but that doesn't warrant a good beat down. But when you are 10 years old, and you tell your dad to "Go F*** Himself", you deserve to get punched in the face, and I did, and I don't blame him one bit for doing so. </font>[/QUOTE]I'm all for corporale punishment for kids, but you should NEVER, EVER hit a child in the face, EVER.

A smack to the butt is more than enough to get the message across. What you saw is just plain bad parenting. The parents don't want to 'hurt their kids feelings' so they let them get away with everything.

[camaro_speedemon]

Originally posted by Mogobs30th:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JusFlyinBy:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by vanbibber:
LMAO! kids like that should be beaten, along with their parents for letting them act like that in public.

You mean so everyone in the restaurant can call child protective services (or wtf its called) on the parents when he gets spanked? :rolleyes:

You aren't safe today to crack your kid a good one if need be, [img]tongue.gif[/img] . </font>[/QUOTE]I think everyone was in agreement with me. Those people in that restaurant were wondering why those parent DIDN'T do anything other than yell at him. </font>[/QUOTE]But see, that's the problem. There will always be one liberal pussy that'll see it as abuse and call the cops.

[Mogobs30th]

Originally posted by camaro_speedemon:
I'm all for corporale punishment for kids, but you should NEVER, EVER hit a child in the face, EVER.

A smack to the butt is more than enough to get the message across. What you saw is just plain bad parenting. The parents don't want to 'hurt their kids feelings' so they let them get away with everything.

Never hit a child in the face??? You think smacking their butt is going to solve it everytime, or to think that it is MORE than enough? Tell that to my friend when his $3000 big screen was destroyed by his 3 year old. He was playing with Kool-Aid, was popped in the butt by his dad, and then stopped for about 10 minutes. Afterward, the 6 year old proceeded to dump the Kool-Aid between the screen of the TV and the base of it, saturating all the electrical components of the TV with flavored sugar water.

Spanking a kid so many times gets repetitive, and the child gets used to it. Pop that kid in the mouth one good time, and I can just about guarantee he will never do it again.

If you want to hear more stories of kids and their constant defiance towards their parents, or kids that get a little bit of HARD dicipline and act right, just ask. I see three kids per every friend I have.

[3.4 slow to go]

that's when you find that person & initiate daily beatings on that dumbass

[OneBad9D5]

Originally posted by camaro_speedemon:
I'm all for corporale punishment for kids, but you should NEVER, EVER hit a child in the face, EVER.
[/QB]

Wrong IMO, If I ever talked back or did anything disrespectful to my mother I would get a slap in the face. I learned after a couple of times and I never did it again. I turned out fine and now that im older I see why she did it. I will do the same to my kids when I have them and hopefully they turn out like me :D

Kids now a days need that kinda discipline or all they will do is keep doing it. A pat on the rear isnt going to get the point across when they figure out sometimes its doesnt hurt.

I agree the woman should have been arrested if all the girl did was playfully scare her mother and the mother started beating the crap outta her.

[camaro_speedemon]

Originally posted by Mogobs30th:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by camaro_speedemon:
I'm all for corporale punishment for kids, but you should NEVER, EVER hit a child in the face, EVER.

A smack to the butt is more than enough to get the message across. What you saw is just plain bad parenting. The parents don't want to 'hurt their kids feelings' so they let them get away with everything.

Never hit a child in the face??? You think smacking their butt is going to solve it everytime, or to think that it is MORE than enough? Tell that to my friend when his $3000 big screen was destroyed by his 3 year old. He was playing with Kool-Aid, was popped in the butt by his dad, and then stopped for about 10 minutes. Afterward, the 6 year old proceeded to dump the Kool-Aid between the screen of the TV and the base of it, saturating all the electrical components of the TV with flavored sugar water.

Spanking a kid so many times gets repetitive, and the child gets used to it. Pop that kid in the mouth one good time, and I can just about guarantee he will never do it again.

If you want to hear more stories of kids and their constant defiance towards their parents, or kids that get a little bit of HARD dicipline and act right, just ask. I see three kids per every friend I have. </font>[/QUOTE]You don't have a kid do you. Come back when you do MMkay.


Get used to being spanked? If you're spanking your kid that much, then something is wrong with your parenting. PERIOD.

I have a 2 year old going through the terrible twos, which is probably the most defiant time for a child. Do I spank her? Yes, only if she continues to disobey. She gets 3 warnings, then timeout. If that doesn't work, she gets a butt spanking. About 50% of the time she stops by the 3nd warning. 25% of the time, timeout cures the problem. 24.9% of the time spanking cures the problem. The rare occurance if spanking doesn't work she goes to her room.

I'd say that she gets a butt whooping probably 2 times a week.

Slapping them in the face does nothing more then make you feel better. Hitting a kid in any other place other then their butt can cause psycological trama.

I'm sorry, your friend was wrong to hit him in the face. And it's obviously your friends fault that it happened. He should have been watching him better. If I have diciplined my daughter, I watch her like a hawk to make sure she doesn't do it again. And if she's playing with her cup, we warn her. We also keep an eye on her, and if she starts playing near my electronics, then I take it away. Simple enough. A good spanking would have been just as effective.

Edit: Why was he letting her run around the house carrying a cup that is spillable, that's just asking for problems.

[ March 15, 2006, 08:00 PM: Message edited by: camaro_speedemon ]

[3.4 slow to go]

Originally posted by camaro_speedemon:
I have a 2 year old going through the terrible twos, which is probably the most defiant time for a child.

Wait until she hits four, it'll be twice as bad. Turning five hasn't been a rose garden either, but then he's probably doing sh*t because he's mad that I'm not there.

[TucsonBird]

Giving a spanking and beating the **** out of your kid are 2 different things people.
If spankings don't work, there ARE more creative and successful things you can do to punish a kid other than beating the **** out of him. :rolleyes:

[OneBad9D5]

There is a difference between a 10 year old (which is what the topic started about) and a 2 year old.

You dont go around slapping a two year old in the face, If the kid is 10 years old and the kid is doing something wrong then the kid deserves to be punished depending on what the kid did.

Like I said when i disrespected my mom or cursed or anything like that, *BOOM* smacked in the face.

The older the kid the more severe the punishment. A little pat on the bottom if the kid is 10 isnt going to work. If your kid is cursing and acting all crazy and you say go to your room do you really think he is going to listen to you? I doubt it if he is cursing at you that means he isnt respecting you. There is a difference between respecting and fearing, bad parents want there kids to fear them, good parents have there kids respect them.

But pretty soon the kid will find out the whoppings dont hurt and that he can say no and not stay in his room then all you need is *BOOM*...

[OneBad9D5]

Originally posted by camaro_speedemon:

But see, that's the problem. There will always be one liberal pussy that'll see it as abuse and call the cops.

Rule with a iron fist???

Originally posted by camaro_speedemon:


Slapping them in the face does nothing more then make you feel better. Hitting a kid in any other place other then their butt can cause psycological trama.

But then you say dont hit them...

Contradictory?

[camaro_speedemon]

Originally posted by OneBad9D5:
There is a difference between a 10 year old (which is what the topic started about) and a 2 year old.

You dont go around slapping a two year old in the face, If the kid is 10 years old and the kid is doing something wrong then the kid deserves to be punished depending on what the kid did.

Like I said when i disrespected my mom or cursed or anything like that, *BOOM* smacked in the face.

The older the kid the more severe the punishment. A little pat on the bottom if the kid is 10 isnt going to work. If your kid is cursing and acting all crazy and you say go to your room do you really think he is going to listen to you? I doubt it if he is cursing at you that means he isnt respecting you. There is a difference between respecting and fearing, bad parents want there kids to fear them, good parents have there kids respect them.

But pretty soon the kid will find out the whoppings dont hurt and that he can say no and not stay in his room then all you need is *BOOM*...

That's what the belt is for. All my dad had to do is pull the belt from the closet and I damn well did what I was told.

And if your 10 year old is cursing, let alone at you, then well, I won't go there.

[camaro_speedemon]

Originally posted by OneBad9D5:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by camaro_speedemon:

But see, that's the problem. There will always be one liberal pussy that'll see it as abuse and call the cops.

Rule with a iron fist???

Originally posted by camaro_speedemon:


Slapping them in the face does nothing more then make you feel better. Hitting a kid in any other place other then their butt can cause psycological trama.

But then you say dont hit them...

Contradictory? </font>[/QUOTE]Uh, I said don't hit in any place other then their butt man. I didn't say anything about not spanking them.

[TheYellowMeanie]

There's a BIG difference between tapping your kid on the face for talking back and slapping your kid so hard that you physically knock them to the floor.

I got popped on the mouth as a kid for saying stuff i shouldnt have, but was NEVER slapped like that.

No parent should ever hit their child so hard that they cause them great physical harm.

I give parents props for spanking there kids in public. If people werent so uptight about kids being spanked we wouldnt have dozens of kids running around walmart with no clue where there parents are. half the time the problem is the parents.


There is a fine line and I'm not sure any of us know where exactly that fine line is. To some parents that fine line is never raising a hand to there kids, to others causing physical harm is still inside that fine line.

Either way how the mom went about punishing her daughter was wrong.

[TucsonBird]

Originally posted by OneBad9D5:
There is a difference between a 10 year old (which is what the topic started about) and a 2 year old.

You dont go around slapping a two year old in the face, If the kid is 10 years old and the kid is doing something wrong then the kid deserves to be punished depending on what the kid did.

Like I said when i disrespected my mom or cursed or anything like that, *BOOM* smacked in the face.

The older the kid the more severe the punishment. A little pat on the bottom if the kid is 10 isnt going to work. If your kid is cursing and acting all crazy and you say go to your room do you really think he is going to listen to you? I doubt it if he is cursing at you that means he isnt respecting you. There is a difference between respecting and fearing, bad parents want there kids to fear them, good parents have there kids respect them.

But pretty soon the kid will find out the whoppings dont hurt and that he can say no and not stay in his room then all you need is *BOOM*...

I agree with you that 10 yr old punishments are different than 2 yr old punishments but either way hitting them isn't the right way. I'm sorry you got hit when you were a kid. But like I said there's more creative and successful things to do other than smack your kid across the face. If hand spankings don't do the job, most rules are easily enforced with the belt [img]graemlins/bowdown.gif[/img] . Being grounded to my room with all the toys and TV taken out worked pretty well too.

[vanbibber]

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