f*cked up sh*t my friends

[ka50]

I caught my mom with another man and she's married to my dad... my dad doesn't know, he's out of the country.

What do I do? Should I tell my dad? It will ruin the marriage that's for sure, cuz my dad is not an idiot and quite hot tempered... I'm confused.

that's some really f*cked up sh*t...

[skorpion317]

whoa dude, that sucks...i'm sorry. that's a pretty messed up situation. I think your dad has a right to know. you would wanna know if your wife was cheating on you, wouldn't you? does your mom know you caught her?

[Fredless]

Does your mom know that you know?

Honestly, I'd wait till he is home. Don't ruin **** for him while he is overseas. I know if I was overseas and I found out my wife was cheating on me, that'd **** me up pretty bad and really screw my morale.

[skorpion317]

yeah i'd wait for dad to come home to tell him.

[ka50]

Yes she knows that I know. I've been suspecting for some time, today it just became fully apparent.

[skorpion317]

how exactly did you catch her? and what did she say?

[ka50]

I don't want to go into details, but I've seen this sh*thead a few times over and I've had suspicions. This time it was just blatant. She didn't say much about it. I didn't ask anything. I was just stumped... should I confront this sh*thead myself or something? Cuz he's still in the house RIGHT F*CKING NOW. They are watching TV, very close to each other.

[skorpion317]

hmmm don't say anything till he leaves. then confront your mom.

[snatch]

maybe there both doing it. Maybe he's not really out of country!
Shane

[skorpion317]

if you're a minor and you can take the guy, maybe you could confront him....but i don't think that's a good idea. better to talk to your mom about it later.

[skorpion317]

Originally posted by snatch:
maybe there both doing it. Maybe he's not really out of country!
Shane

don't confuse him. it's bad enough that his mom's doing it.

[skorpion317]

Originally posted by ka50:
I don't want to go into details, but I've seen this sh*thead a few times over and I've had suspicions. This time it was just blatant. She didn't say much about it. I didn't ask anything. I was just stumped... should I confront this sh*thead myself or something? Cuz he's still in the house RIGHT F*CKING NOW. They are watching TV, very close to each other.

when you say blatant, do you mean like they were hooking up in front of you or something?

[ka50]

Originally posted by skorpion317:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by ka50:
I don't want to go into details, but I've seen this sh*thead a few times over and I've had suspicions. This time it was just blatant. She didn't say much about it. I didn't ask anything. I was just stumped... should I confront this sh*thead myself or something? Cuz he's still in the house RIGHT F*CKING NOW. They are watching TV, very close to each other.

when you say blatant, do you mean like they were hooking up in front of you or something? </font>[/QUOTE]Blatantly apparent means it was proven beyond reasonable doubt today.

[BLLDOGG]

im sorry, i would seriously go in there right now and deal with the guy. rough him up alittle as your escort him out of the house. if your a minor, i would tear him a new one. then, i would confront your mom after you remove the man. then tell you dad. you cant keep something like this from your dad.

[White95]

if it makes you feel any better my girlfriend had the same exact thing happen to her about 2 yrs ago...The biggest mistake she made was not saying how she felt about the situation (SP). Her mom basicly convinced her that it was ok b/c my girlfriend didn't want to upset her mom....Hope everything turns out ok, though if you are under 18 I'd take him on, or make a scene...you'd be surpised what a pissed off 14-17 can do!