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I dunno what to do.
My girlfriend, I love her. But I'm thinking it won't go anywhere but where we have already been. I've been with her for 3 years as of feb 15th.
There's tons of reasons to stay with her and just as many to move on. A good chick friend of mine said, "you've been with her for 3 years, are you going to marry her?" (which the answer is no, I'm not ready nor do I want to be married)
The last 2 weeks I've been out of work, and I've been spending alot of time with her, and I feel bad but I'd rather be doing something else.
Little things she is doing are annoying me to the point where I just want to scream.
She has slowly over the coarse of our relationship become more and more "snappy" and just generally a big b*tch. Even my friends have noticed.
I've talked to her before about how her attitude affects me/us. I don't think she realizes what she is saying. I think college has brought on alot of stress so for awhile I made excusses for her, saying she was under alot of stress. Now her classes aren't that bad, and she is even more grumpy. When we talked about it before she said she was sorry, cried, said she loved me, told me how much I meant to her, etc.
I didn't realize until this week, that our relationship is bringing me down. Don't get me wrong I love her, but I dunno if I'm "in love" with her anymore. Actually another post on here got me to realize all of this. I responded in the post saying I'd been with my girl for 3 years, and I wouldn't want to trade that for all the times I'd party'd and stuff before I got with her. Well after I entered it I realized it wasn't true anymore and I didn't feel that way anymore.
So now I don't know what to do, morning rolls around I have to go get her valentine's day stuff. Kinda funny since I'm thinking of dumping her. Then the next day is our 3 year anniversary, so that wouldn't be the right time either. Not to mention we share an apartment. And all our stuff we'd have to divide up.
Anyone else ever been here, advice....
My girlfriend, I love her. But I'm thinking it won't go anywhere but where we have already been. I've been with her for 3 years as of feb 15th.
There's tons of reasons to stay with her and just as many to move on. A good chick friend of mine said, "you've been with her for 3 years, are you going to marry her?" (which the answer is no, I'm not ready nor do I want to be married)
The last 2 weeks I've been out of work, and I've been spending alot of time with her, and I feel bad but I'd rather be doing something else.
Little things she is doing are annoying me to the point where I just want to scream.
She has slowly over the coarse of our relationship become more and more "snappy" and just generally a big b*tch. Even my friends have noticed.
I've talked to her before about how her attitude affects me/us. I don't think she realizes what she is saying. I think college has brought on alot of stress so for awhile I made excusses for her, saying she was under alot of stress. Now her classes aren't that bad, and she is even more grumpy. When we talked about it before she said she was sorry, cried, said she loved me, told me how much I meant to her, etc.
I didn't realize until this week, that our relationship is bringing me down. Don't get me wrong I love her, but I dunno if I'm "in love" with her anymore. Actually another post on here got me to realize all of this. I responded in the post saying I'd been with my girl for 3 years, and I wouldn't want to trade that for all the times I'd party'd and stuff before I got with her. Well after I entered it I realized it wasn't true anymore and I didn't feel that way anymore.
So now I don't know what to do, morning rolls around I have to go get her valentine's day stuff. Kinda funny since I'm thinking of dumping her. Then the next day is our 3 year anniversary, so that wouldn't be the right time either. Not to mention we share an apartment. And all our stuff we'd have to divide up.
Anyone else ever been here, advice....
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