I'm just so damn fed up!

[memphis_raines]

You might want to consider penis enlargement. Unless you're a nun or a porn star, it's hard for any woman to turn down nine inches of ding-a-ling :D

[Turbo V6 Camaro]

Originally posted by Mighty Thor:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by 12secondv6:

And.... it IS true..... NICE guys ALWAYS finish LAST!!!!

James, you know what, I think you should go to church more often and participate in all of the church functions. That's the best place to meet good quality women. And if you don't see a woman at your age there, make your intention known and someone would probably recommend someone to you.

Remember, good things come to those who wait. [img]graemlins/love.gif[/img] </font>[/QUOTE][img]graemlins/rofl.gif[/img] [img]graemlins/rofl.gif[/img]
haha some church girls are the biggest sluts and most freaky girls EVER!!!!!!

no not all but alot of them rebell and have sex with like everyguy... watch the curch girls man...

[speedracer95v6]

I feel ya. It's a bunch of crap.

[nikon]

wow, I guess the saying of nice guys finish last is for the people that are feeling really sorry for themselves, and are to afraid to do anything about it. Nice guys dont finish last especially if you use your intelect. I went through the whole high school dating thing I had more fun with my friends, and fate is'nt certain, its what you make it. Ive been with my girlfriend for over a year and half, and I just got lucky meeting her. And when you pull up next to a woman in a car, you dont smile at em, you flip your visor screens down and blow a kiss at em. They blush and its hilarious, do you really plan on going out with someone that you pulled up next to in your car? NO have fun with it. Dont be so serious have fun and you'll get some. Whether that some is a relationship or a one night stand, sometimes the one night stands after reccuring over a couple times turn into a relationship. WHO KNOWS. but for sure nice guys DONT finish last. They have the edge.

[epic]

Find a latin, James. My latina kicks ***. Sweetest girl, brings me food whenever she is on her way over , takes care of me when sick, etc. The 'fun-factor' is incredible if you get my drift.

Only precaution I can give you is a pissed off Latina is not a good thing. Though hearing Spanish in a hot / mad manner still turns me on. haha.

Don't rush into ****. Like others say, waiting is all part of the game. My friend rushed into something and now he's stuck with a $300 jacket he's trying to return that he bought online.

[Flowbee V6]

Dont change who you are for any woman. Show confidence, but dont change anything else. A lot of women were messed up at an early age and have issues.

[OneBad9D5]

Originally posted by 12secondv6:
And.... it IS true..... NICE guys ALWAYS finish LAST!!!!

You wont finish last if your in your 12 second firebird... [img]graemlins/burnout.gif[/img]

You will only finish last if your trying to look sexy in your neon [img]graemlins/naughty.gif[/img]

[1DangerousV6]

Originally posted by epic:
Find a latin, James. My latina kicks ***. Sweetest girl, brings me food whenever she is on her way over , takes care of me when sick, etc. The 'fun-factor' is incredible if you get my drift.

Only precaution I can give you is a pissed off Latina is not a good thing. Though hearing Spanish in a hot / mad manner still turns me on. haha.

Don't rush into ****. Like others say, waiting is all part of the game. My friend rushed into something and now he's stuck with a $300 jacket he's trying to return that he bought online.

hahaha..this is funny because i know EXACTLY what you're talking about...my girl is like 1/2 spanish and 1/2 american indian...shes the same way..shes got looks to die for..SO sweet and good to me...but DAMN can she f*ck sh*t up if you cross her lol [img]smile.gif[/img]

[Ender2664]

Hey man you just need to stick in there(says the 19 yearold). I am the same way. I open the doors, i pay, i hold hands, i don't push for anything, i don't do drugs, i don't have sex...i am a really nice guy. But here is what i have come to realize and it suck. MOST girls need a guy so bad that he scars her and she will only go for a good guy. All girls say they want a good guy but that is a lie. In my experiance the only girls that want a good guy are the ones that have had the worst guys, and have been abused by him, or raped, or something that dramatic. It is really sad but, for the most part it is the truth.
Here is why i think this is, at least for me. I am 19 but i am extreamly smart, level headed and in the business world. I have been working since age 14, most of the time 50 hour weeks while school is in seccion. This is what i have come to understand. All girls like to say they have a nice guy, and like to have the door opened for them, and like to be treated with respect, and like all the stuff that a nice gentleman such as myself will bring to the table. However most girls also long for being pushed to the side and treated as a sexual object, they long for that like they long to be treated nicely. I am very good at adapting my personality, so for a couple of months i did that. I played into the whole bad boy thing. I drove my car around with music blasting, john deere hat and aviatiors on acting like a total but monkey, not paying attention to girls just being a jerk, and you know what, i got 10x more girls than what i get while i am being nice. But you konw what that isn't me. Hell i don't even like to just hook up with girls, i think that it devalues thema nd myself. But anyways here is my point. That is how it is, and it isn't going to change anytime soon, you just need to stick it out my friend, and eventually it will work out for you. Nice guys get married last...but they are the ones that stay married!
All i can say is be who you are and don't change just because girls like *******s, stay nice and stay a gentleman, there are far to few of us left!

[BirdOfPrey01]

90% OF GIRLS ARE DUMB, REMEMBER THAT!

There is so many types man, some girls just want a free ride in life, these are the ones to just use and lose.

Then you have the stuck up girls that think they are too good for everyone. These girls are usually just *****es.

Then you have the nice girls that are nuetral, these are the cool ones.

But here is the problem guys, if you think a girl is supposed to like come up to you and hit on you and ask you out for a date or a good time. Then you are mistakin.

Occasionally a girl will do this to a guy, its happened to me, (And i rejected the offer, she was good looking but at the time I had a girlfriend already.)

Anyways, always be aggressive, always show you have confidence, always show you can be slick and smart and charming. This will win any woman, but remember you have to be a man, and take care of your own things.

Maybe back in highschool you could land girls left and right with a few giggles and jokes but when your 28, you need to show you got your sh*t on a roll.

In the end, just make sure you have a plan in life, then go dog on those girls [img]smile.gif[/img]

[Mighty Thor]

Originally posted by 1DangerousV6:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by epic:
Find a latin, James. My latina kicks ***. Sweetest girl, brings me food whenever she is on her way over , takes care of me when sick, etc. The 'fun-factor' is incredible if you get my drift.

Only precaution I can give you is a pissed off Latina is not a good thing. Though hearing Spanish in a hot / mad manner still turns me on. haha.

Don't rush into ****. Like others say, waiting is all part of the game. My friend rushed into something and now he's stuck with a $300 jacket he's trying to return that he bought online.

hahaha..this is funny because i know EXACTLY what you're talking about...my girl is like 1/2 spanish and 1/2 american indian...shes the same way..shes got looks to die for..SO sweet and good to me...but DAMN can she f*ck sh*t up if you cross her lol [img]smile.gif[/img] </font>[/QUOTE]x3 on that one. Eventhough my wife is from here, her Mexican heritage is strong and traditional. I'm loving it too. [img]graemlins/rock.gif[/img]

[Ender2664]

Well after i said all of this i will tell you my light at the end of the tunnel, it sounds like you have it but listen, this is what is working for me. BALLS!
My first girl friend was at age 19, hooked up before that, been asked to have sex about 6 times before that, but she was my first girlfriend (in newport if you are a virgin girls really want to take that away from you). Anyways, here is the deal you need to have balls and be confident, not a jerk confident. I pull chicks like crazy now, believe it or not (seeing as this is the internet i don't think you will) yesterday i got 3 girls numbers, two of them were in the same class. Here is what i do. Don't act mean just act like you don't care. You don't care if they call you don't care if they say yes or no, you have so much going on in your life you could care less if they say yes or give you their number, they have to impress you not visa versa. This immediatly puts off a image and most of the time i end up getting asked for my number or asked if i want to hang out sometime, or asked for a ride in my sexy car. I never have to be an ***, or mean, or out of charactor. I just act like i have so much on my plate already that they are lucky if i have the time to spend with them, and you know what eventually that is what it turns out to be. I learned this from my next door neighbor, works majic for him. Just act like that and once you have them then be nice. Then they think wow not only does he have time for me, like me, a career, and all this other stuff but he is nice, and a gentleman.
Well it works for me, and i just want to help some fellow fbody members with my knowledge.

[imported_admin]

Originally posted by 12secondv6:
I'm now doubting myself.

Don't do that. You're a man of honor; that should not change.

Originally posted by 12secondv6:
And.... it IS true..... NICE guys ALWAYS finish LAST!!!!

Yes, but they finish BEST.

In my experience, when you look for love you never find it... it finds you. Frustrating as all hell but it never fails.

When my ex-fiancee and I broke up my life was utterly destroyed. It of course happened at the same time that I was laid off from my prior employer, to add insult to injury. I actually joined a dating website and had two brief but intense flings thinking I could replace her in my heart. Didn't happen. But then just as everything was pitch black and things seemed as though they couldn't get any worse, a female from my past re-entered my life, took my heart like a hurricane and now I'm whole again, happier than I've been in years. For the first time in a long time I feel accepted for what I really am--flawed as I may be.

I'm sure every other member could tell a story about the unexpected that (to be tacky) "sweeps you off your feet". Sounds corny and like the stuff of romance novels but it is true. THAT is love, not going on a date with a girl that you later develop feelings for.

So in the end, what chance does that give you? Eh, don't know. Keep your chin up though, for when you cave in on yourself and pretend to be something you're not (in your case a jerk) you may find a girl--but you will not find happiness. Happiness can only find you. So keep trucking along and do not sacrifice what you are. Someday the love of your life will thank you for it.

[L32Projekt]

James, don't give up on who you are. You know how I met my wife? I stopped trying to look for someone and she dropped out of the clear blue skies.

We've been married 5 years now and I know she's my proverbial "Soul Mate" [img]graemlins/love.gif[/img]

I hope that you find the "special one" for you, and once you do, it will ALL be worth it. Have faith.

EDIT: Oh, BTW she thought my Neon was sexy... :D True story!

[hockeyman]

Originally posted by 12secondv6:
NICE guys ALWAYS finish LAST!!!!

Walk up next time, kick her where it counts, grab her hair, pull it back, kiss her like you've never kissed any other woman before, TELL her you are taking her back to your place for some "Barry White" type LUV, then get outta there before the cops show up!!! Because you'll find that doing all of that will put you in prison, you'll get many of tattoo's, have a companion (not from the other sex) and you'll be wondering why you didn't stay the nice guy you once were.

JK [img]tongue.gif[/img] I know whatchya mean bro! If it wasn't for my wife, I don't know what I'd do with my life. I once thought of becoming a monk. Keep the faith though! Your gonna meet someone when you're not looking...TRUST ME!

[ December 17, 2004, 02:53 PM: Message edited by: hockeyman ]