I'm just so damn fed up!

[FirebirdGT]

Originally posted by Stefan:
Happiness can only find you.

BUT ONLY if you are HAPPY. You draw to yourself what you are. If you are unhappy in life, you will NOT draw to you people who are happy in life. OPPOSITES DO NOT attract! The people in your life are your "mirrors".

I have seen too many people "***** and moan" about how life sucks, then can't understand why life sucks. You reap what you sow. The Universe (God) gives you what you think and say. If you think "My life sucks", you will get it. If you think "I am happy and my life is wonderful", you will get IT instead.

[ December 17, 2004, 04:15 PM: Message edited by: FirebirdGT ]

[misterjuice]

James just needs to find a girl that thinks his tractor is sexy ;)

I told him he should rock the cowboy hat 24/7

ladies love cowboy hats

[Pathogen]

Originally posted by Pathogen:
I have learned, that people, in general will take anything you tell them in confidence and use it against you the first chance they get ... etc, etc.

Just an FYI guys, it was brought to my attention that this sounded really bad --- I AM NOT talking about anyone you guys know. This is an open scar from my past (many years ago) that will not heal anytime soon. :mad: :rolleyes: :(

[Die Ford V8]

Originally posted by L32Projekt:
James, don't give up on who you are. You know how I met my wife? I stopped trying to look for someone and she dropped out of the clear blue skies.

We've been married 5 years now and I know she's my proverbial "Soul Mate" [img]graemlins/love.gif[/img]

I hope that you find the "special one" for you, and once you do, it will ALL be worth it. Have faith.

EDIT: Oh, BTW she thought my Neon was sexy... :D True story!

sexy cars mean nothin if they are not camaro's she is just saying that. believe her if you want, but neons ARE NOT SEXY..
j/k whatever works for you and fuels your ego :rolleyes:


hockeyman

Here to Stay
Member # 658

posted December 17, 2004 10:47 AM
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Originally posted by 12secondv6:
NICE guys ALWAYS finish LAST!!!!
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Walk up next time, kick her where it counts, grab her hair, pull it back, kiss her like you've never kissed any other woman before, TELL her you are taking her back to your place for some "Barry White" type LUV, then get outta there before the cops show up!!! Because you'll find that doing all of that will put you in prison, you'll get many of tattoo's, have a companion (not from the other sex) and you'll be wondering why you didn't stay the nice guy you once were.


funniest thing ive heard in a long time.


oh and for the guy with this advise, i try to act like i dont car, but as soon as a girl talks to me i get "twitterpated"(yes i quoted friend owl from bambi)

and its as if they dont want a guy that likes them.

i bet it would be easier for us if it was the 60s or 70s. girls just seem to get more difficult and different.

and yes i know that alot of girls get really screwed up by their childhoods. but instead of changing they stay the way they are because they really dont want to change.

i dont know just throwing out my thoughts

[Shirl]

Her excuse.... I lost your number.

Me......."OK" She said "This is akward"... walks away (she is a waitress)..... I decide the night is over.

This doesn't make a whole lotta sense. On the flip side, she sounds like she might be shy. Or maybe she was embarrassed because she was working. Maybe you should have gotten the scoop from her friend whether she was/wasn't interested (or already involved with someone) or better yet, asked her out for a drink after work to see what she'd say, rather than calling it a night. At least you'd know what the real deal is. Nothing's easy. If you want something or someone, you gotta go after it. I was swept away like that...I acted like I wasn't interested and my guy kept pursuing the night that we met at a local bar. He asked me to go grab something to eat afterwards and although I was a little reluctant, I went anyway because it was on the way home for me and one of my friends said it was ok to go with him. To make a LONG story short, we've been together for over 2 years now and are EXTREMELY happy. He treats me like gold and vice-versa. Just saying, ya never know what can happen. But it's better to be sure about a situation than just walk away so easily. She's probably a good find who doesn't give in to anyone who walks into the restaurant. THAT'S the kind of GIRL you want!! [img]graemlins/love.gif[/img]

[Johnny Ray]

I only get frustrated whenever I try to manipulate.

I just appreciate whatever happens in a relationship.

:cool:

[TealV6]

Originally posted by Stefan:
For the first time in a long time I feel accepted for what I really am--flawed as I may be.

"sweeps you off your feet"

Originally posted by Pathogen:
People suck. All people suck - not just women, not just men - all people.

Interesting that BOTH of you should comment on such a topic when you both and others hide the truth of what you have done to people.

I quoted both of you for the truth of what you say... as it represents the most intense feelings one would have when finding someone, losing them and then finding it was nothing but LIES !

Should this post "disappear" I'll be more than happy to post the true of the matter, or maybe you both should.. I'm sure it would be a great read for the community.

It think it was best said with this:

Keep your friends close and your enemies closer

For James... everyone gets older and wiser... it takes a special person to find real love rather than rushing in and finding divorce later on. Have patience, as I'm sure what goes around comes around. You'll find that someone, or they'll find you!

Steve

[misterjuice]

what if the cops find him first????

in all seriousness..............I think James should rock the cowboy hat, then the ladies will flock.

[Everglades W68]

Chin up, James! There are lots of great ladies out there.


Remember, "every girl's crazy 'bout a sharp dressed man." :cool:

[Amphilophus]

you just have to be confident and patient. I look at it this way any female would be lucky to have me and for the ones that dont want me. well that is their loss not mine. females want to feel secure. But mostly it just takes time and patience and dont mess up when you find the one. But what do I know I am 22 and married and happy. good luck.

[DarkEcho]

"Thats easy kyle, all you gotta do is find the clitoris"
-Chef

[Turbo V6 Camaro]

"One should not Dewl on the memories of tomarrow, rather use the memories of today to write your own tomarrow."

Andrew

[57s98Camaro]

Don't worry man, everyone has a rough spell with women sooner or later. Take this time for self improvement. I'm glad to hear you have your career and health on high priority, that is what is most important.

Also, you don't have to be a jerk to pick up women. You don't have to go out of your way to be a "nice guy" either. Just be a man. After all my encounters with women, this has always proved true.

[misterjuice]

*waiting to hear report from last nite* me wonders if she dig the cowboy hat ;)

[Turbo V6 Camaro]

Originally posted by misterjuice:
*waiting to hear report from last nite* me wonders if she dig the cowboy hat ;)