I am seriously depressed (girl problems)

[skorpion317]

I just found out that my ex-g/f, who I was trying to get back together with, has rejected me. I am so hurt and confused right now...I don't know what to do....

We were supposed to hang out on Sunday...go out for a picnic or something...i called her 6 times saturday and sunday, and got no return phone call. I tried to IM her today, but she ignored me, and I read in her profile the following words:

"You can't make me love you if I don't. You can't make my heart feel what it won't."

Under that, the following:

"I've kissed many frogs in my life, but i finally found my prince...I love you XXXX!" XXXX is the guy she was hooking up with before i came back into the scene. I just called her 10 minutes ago....She told me she spent the weekend with XXXX down the shore, until sunday, and she decided he was the one, not me. She didn't even call me to tell me on sunday. She told me she doesn't see herself with me at all....and she's happy with XXXX. this is some messed-up $hit...everything was going fine until the last 48 hours. then it all went to hell. she just wants to be friends, but i can't get over her. she's the only girl ive ever truly loved...i don't feel anything for other girls. i feel like a big hole has been ripped in my chest...my heart is empty. I'm alone right now...i can't talk to my parents about this, they'll give me the "I told you so" speech. I'm freaking out...idk what to do. someone just talk to me...

[pr95blackbird]

im very sorry to hear that skorpion, my advice is to try to stay good friends and hang out alot, but dont let yourself become obsessive, time heals all wounds no matter the size.

[hawgs]

pr95blackbird is completly wrong. If you stay friends with her you will only screw yourself up more. You will never be happy with just friends, no matter how much you try and convience yourself you will be. I've been where you are. Cut all ties with her and you will be much happier, I promise. As much as you want to wait around for her to come around... you cannot do that to yourself. The best thing that ever happened to me was when the girl I was torturing myself over started dating my best friend of 14 years even after he asked me if he could and I said no. Cut all ties with her and start living your life... it will be the best thing you can do. You're way too young to be depressed about girls.

[skorpion317]

Originally posted by pr95blackbird:
im very sorry to hear that skorpion, my advice is to try to stay good friends and hang out alot, but dont let yourself become obsessive, time heals all wounds no matter the size.

idk about this wound....i've never been this messed-up over a girl before...i honestly thought she was "the one", you know? and it kills me to see her with another guy...i just wanna throw myself out of my window. I won't, i don't believe in suicide, but i feel like it. I don't know how in the hell i'm gonna get over her. Like i said, i don't feel anything for other girls (other than sexual attraction...they're all pieces of *** to me, except for her).

[Jerriko]

Originally posted by hawgs:
pr95blackbird is completly wrong. If you stay friends with her you will only screw yourself up more. You will never be happy with just friends, no matter how much you try and convience yourself you will be. I've been where you are. Cut all ties with her and you will be much happier, I promise. As much as you want to wait around for her to come around... you cannot do that to yourself. The best thing that ever happened to me was when the girl I was torturing myself over started dating my best friend of 14 years even after he asked me if he could and I said no. Cut all ties with her and start living your life... it will be the best thing you can do. You're way too young to be depressed about girls.

For once, I have to agree w/ Hawgs here. There is so much more you can do w/ your life besides tormenting yourself about her.

[epic]

Ditch her, the bish ain't worth it.

I was in the same situation a few years ago. The girl actually cheated on me, I foolishly took her back, just to have her break my heart again. Never again will that happen.

I just worked a lot to get her off my mind, and sure enough, two new loves came into my life, one being a new ride.

Life's really too short to be upset over one girl. There's too many out there. Take as many as you can for a ride until you find that special one. ;)

[skorpion317]

she was the special one....i dated another girl in-between the time we broke up last and the time we started hooking up again...it didn't feel right at all. that's what's getting me so worked up...i only feel right when i'm with my ex.

[epic]

Originally posted by epic:
Ditch her, the bish ain't worth it.

[wilkcamaro98]

Sux man I know it feels like you only be with her but just give it time. Like some one said times heals. Plus girls seem to want what the can not have or have a little bit of a challenge if you become there all the time or basically roll over to ever need she ask she start to grow bored. If she said she doesn't love you than you should just move on the best revenge is a life well lived.

[WishIHad$$$]

Originally posted by skorpion317:
she was the special one....i dated another girl in-between the time we broke up last and the time we started hooking up again...it didn't feel right at all. that's what's getting me so worked up...i only feel right when i'm with my ex.

Did you think you would fall in love just once in your life?

Spend time with your old friends, go to parties and meet new girls, have fun and live your life. Don't bother talking to her, or keep it to a minimum. It may hurt now but eventually things will work out.

She told you that she doesn't love you...trying to be with someone that doesn't share mutual feelings will only cause problems.

[nda0602v6]

Sorry to hear what happened. I would have to agree 100% with Hawgs advice. The way you feel now will pass sooner than you may think. Your depression will only get worse if you hang out as friends. Cut all ties with her, pretend she's dead, do whatever you gotta do to get her off your mind.

[BLLDOGG]

i know how you feel man. its hasnt been that long so just hang in there. the pain will pass trust me. Hawgs is completly right by the way ;)

[skorpion317]

Originally posted by BLLDOGG:
Hawgs is completly right by the way ;)

when was the last time that happened?

[Skapimp]

Hawgs is right. (congrats hawgs, I actually said that)


That and I bet if you had a firebird she'd be all over you.

[WishIHad$$$]

Originally posted by Skapimp:
Hawgs is right. (congrats hawgs, I actually said that)


That and I bet if you had a firebird she'd think you were gay.