I am seriously depressed (girl problems)

[Linxs]

Originally posted by ka50:
do you know why you're so stressed out because of this girl? it's not because you love her (even though you might think you do),

Since when are you a shrink? ANYWAY, for fear of getting off topic I'll move on.....

Originally posted by ka50:
Lovers can't be friends and friends can't be lovers.

I completely dissagree, You have to be friends otherwise you're fooling yourselfs into thinking it's going to work out.

If you truly love her then you'll want her to be happy as well. There are other fish in the sea, don't get hung up on the one that got away (I know it's hard)....

[tWiStEdBird]

Ouch man, I know how you feel. Don't let it get you down too much, because it always gets better. When my girl of 3 years left I couldn't eat for a week, literaly. But we worked things out, and she got her **** together, and we're engaged now. I'm not saying you'll get back with her, but really, your better off. Don't get too depressed because I'm sure you know by now the deeper you fall, the harder the climb back up is. It's normal to be sad, and I'm not saying you shouldn't be, but you'll heal. Just leave her alone, and tell her to do the same for you. Not what you want to hear, and not what you want to happen, I know, but really, it'll get much better. Just work on your car, and hang out with your close friends, thats the only thing that kept me sane.

[AlienInv8r]

Find a new hobby, pick up a musical instrument or go crazy with your car. Do whatever you can to severe your thoughts about her. If you keep dwelling on what you wish it was, you'll only drive yourself in a perpetual circle and never get past it.

Try finding another chick, and dont compare the ex. Just push her out of your mind and get to the next step in life.

She's obviously not good enough for you if she keeps treating you like that, esp. for the second time around. The person that's "the one" wouldnt make you feel like that, or treat you like that.

[majeskyb]

Originally posted by new2thegame:
just go get a russsian bride thats what i did...

So did I! But I didn't order her, I met her back in high school

[ September 28, 2004, 08:31 PM: Message edited by: majeskyb ]

[Magnus]

I didn't read the thread, only your post.

My comments. Forget about her and move on but ask yourself this: Why does he make her happier than you? What does he have to offer her that you can't.

Apparently he does have more to give her as she is now happier so perhaps you should look at yourself and decide what you can improve for your next relationship.

Things you can always be better at that girls really like: romance, laughter, caring and sensativity, great listeners, physical strength, confidence, goals and ambitions, and of course girls like a guy who can really go the distance in the sack.. make it rough once in a while.

Usually a guy can lack much of the above but if he can make a girl laugh and smile, feel loved and special, that is often enough for many women.

I would just look for a girl with bigger breasts, play with them, and then inform your ex about your new found play toy.

[skorpion317]

Originally posted by Magnus:
I would just look for a girl with bigger breasts, play with them, and then inform your ex about your new found play toy.

my ex has DD's. not too many girls out there that are bigger than that.

[Magnus]

damn dude,... .. well.. quite honestly, if your a boob guy you're screwed.

suxor

[skorpion317]

Originally posted by Magnus:
damn dude,... .. well.. quite honestly, if your a boob guy you're screwed.

suxor

looks like i'm screwed then.

[Magnus]

If I were you I would go this route:

Find a girl who is hot and thin and is ok with implants and then just get her implants. Sure, you will have to settle for less than big boobs for a while, but if you do stay with her, she will have firm boobs forever.. Those DD's won't be too much fun to look at for much longer. Eventually they gonna be telling secrets to her belly button.

I once dated a girl with big boobs.. man a man doesn't know how great boobs really are until she is lying on her back and has to hold them down to prevent them from nocking herself out.. but now I date a girl who is 100x more intense, way more attractive, very active and extremely vocal. I never looked back.

[ September 28, 2004, 11:59 PM: Message edited by: Magnus ]

[DaRock]

You are probably a nice guy. Girls dont like nice guys. Girls treat nice guys like their friends or brothers. Trust me I have learned from experience, girls like guys that make them insecure. Girls like guys that treat them like shiiit, no offense to the laides but its true.

Be confident, dont always do everything she wants, be mysterious, dont always be there for her, dont talk to her about other guys.

Some advice is plain wrong, dont treat her like your buddy.

Now what you have to do is, try and get away from her, stop being her friend, stop picking up the phone when she calls, seem busy. Stop being her friend totally.

If she considers you a friend she will reach out to you, if not shes not worth it.

The worst, worst, worst mistake you did was saying you like her.

Girls like guys that are mean and hard to get. They want a man, not a women.

Girls have a backup system, I belive you are the backup for her. If what she want doesnt happen she will come to you. Trust me its not a good situation to be in.

The best advice is ignore her for a while, have fun, or make it seem like your having fun. Talk to her about girls you like, tell her about how you like girls, and what you would like to do with them. Then slowly make her the friend that wants you, instead of the other way around.

With women its all mental. The ugliest guy can get the hottest girl if he plays the game right

[Mogobs30th]

I know where you are coming from, trust me on this. And anyone that says time heals all wounds, is a liar. Not to discourage you, but it never heals. It never gets better, because of the uniqueness of that person. There will probably be something you will always miss about her. But after a period of time you learn to just live with it. You cannot let it control you.

[GrigoryRasputin]

Keith, when you write things do you think about how much of a tool youre going to sound like when other people read them?

[Magnus]

Nate, when you create a new fake name do you think about how much of a loser you are for going to such great lengths just to be a part of the forum that is constantly rejecting you?

[GrigoryRasputin]

Wait, Im the loser who obviously is able to brush off "online rejection" and youre NOT a loser b/c you think "online rejection" is something that makes me a loser?

Thats sort of like saying "youre a loser because youre not getting any cyber sex"

**** - my online rep went to hell.

Oh yeah and Im not acknowleding my name is Nate. Its not, its obviously Grigory. Get it right

[Magnus]

Pretty sad comeback nate.

you got owned. [img]graemlins/twak.gif[/img]