I need some advice about a girl

[firebird19_99]

ok so there's this girl (obviously) and i asked her out. Her birthdays this week also so idk what to do, where would be an appropriate place to take her and what type of gift would be acceptable considering this is the first date but its her birthday. im lost.....a girls input would be nice. Thanks, i hope somebody here has been in my situation.

[Tom Rs]

Re: I need some advice about a girl

hmmm... You never went out with her but her birthday is this week ? Not sure on this one. You can always ask her what she'd like to do for her birthday. It doesnt have to be a suprise remember.

[firebird19_99]

Re: I need some advice about a girl

would a movie be ok? i feel like its a little old and overdone

[hockeyman]

Re: I need some advice about a girl

A card with a nice arrangement of flowers. Don't over-do it.
A movie would be fine too, but flowers will be a really nice gesture.

[Tom Rs]

Re: I need some advice about a girl

A card with a nice arrangement of flowers. Don't over-do it.
A movie would be fine too, but flowers will be a really nice gesture.

i agree.....

[BallerMaro13]

Re: I need some advice about a girl

x3 flowers/card. keep it simple and maybe grab some dinner then try to get a small group of her friends together for her birthday so she doesn't think its all about what you want and she'll be more comfortable.

and mark my words...a good sense of humor will get you a long way with a girl---keep her laughing and don't be afraid to be you.

good luck mang!

[LETZRIDE]

Re: I need some advice about a girl

I wouldnt do flowers on a first date...I do something like dinner (not fast food) and a movie...flowers on a first date (even though its her birthday) might show that your trying too hard...girls dont like to be smothered...remember its a first date, you're not actually going out officially as a couple yet...

[Niko97RS]

Re: I need some advice about a girl

do dinner and a walk in a park or something outdoors/somewhere u can communicate...kinda hard to get to kno a girl when ur just staring at a trenmendous screen for 2 hours lol

worst thing u can do...be nervous. be urself just like u would be around ur other female friends, let her see the real u. itll work.

[stevethepirate]

Re: I need some advice about a girl

How old are you?


DON'T go to a movie. Girls want to have a good time when they go out on dates... Don't rely on some overpaid hollywood actors to give them this good time. As Niko just explained, go somewhere that you guys will be able to talk. Dinner is always good.

I WOULD take her flowers. If it is her birthday, you want to have something for her. Taking her an actual present would be worthless, and she would probably be pretty weirded out (seeing as its only the first date). Just go find a nice bouquet and give it to her when you pick her up. Girls love that ****. Throw a SMALL card on there. Just something saying happy birthday.


Trust me...



I know what the ladies like.

[Inferno]

Re: I need some advice about a girl

^ Alcohol?


And as far as her b-day present goes, just SIIHP.

[stevethepirate]

Re: I need some advice about a girl

^ Alcohol?


And as far as her b-day present goes, just SIIHP.

x2 on both points.

[Inferno]

Re: I need some advice about a girl

those 2 tend to go hand-in-hand ;)

[DAS BOOT]

Re: I need some advice about a girl

Normal response...

find her favorite color and make the flowers that color.... don't overdo it get flowers form like a grocery store, small and simple.


Cool car guy response.

but overall advice take her to hooters and as a gift giver her "the ****" as a present..

[StrtRacer98]

Re: I need some advice about a girl

I wouldnt do flowers on a first date...I do something like dinner

Good Idea.

do dinner and a walk in a park or something outdoors/somewhere u can communicate...kinda hard to get to kno a girl when ur just staring at a trenmendous screen for 2 hours lol

worst thing u can do...be nervous. be urself just like u would be around ur other female friends, let her see the real u. itll work.

Don't listen to this guy..

Trust me...

he's a doctor...

^ Alcohol?

just SIIHP.

Lol, give it a shot

x2 on both points.

[BallerMaro13]

Re: I need some advice about a girl

lol u guys are ridiculous...


as a democracy, i believe this forum votes to just SIIHP :stp:


haha good luck with that.