I need some advice about a girl

[Mighty Thor]

Re: I need some advice about a girl

Is it me or is the girl in the middle pregnant? And she's drinking too. no no there

Taking a girl to bar or out with your friends or hers is not a good idea. She will be more interested in knowing your friends than you.


I say take her to an Amusement Park and then to a nice dinner. This way you get to have fun and then mellow out during dinner.



I thought I get my 0.02 cent in before this thread gets locked. :D

[Windcharger99]

Re: I need some advice about a girl

Trust me...



I know what the ladies like.

And from this picture apparently it is other girls. Not that there is anything wrong with that.

[00FlowCamaro]

Re: I need some advice about a girl

Woaw Woaw, the only way to determine what to do is by pictures.

[Kleenax]

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try some good old fashioned outdoors date , a picnic walk something where u can talk and dont gotta be quite the whole time , maybe some miniture golf?

[camaroman1181]

Re: I need some advice about a girl

depends how old you and her are... if you actually care to know her, i say take her to dinner. Youll both get the chance to figure out if you have anything in common, before you waste any money on a second date.. and if its her bday, a single flower (not a rose) and a simple card would be nice... main thing is dont go overboard.

[pace2006]

Re: I need some advice about a girl

Trust me...
I know what the ladies like.

Which is exactly why they're all huddled together in the middle and you're off in the corner. :P

x3 flowers/card. keep it simple and maybe grab some dinner then try to get a small group of her friends together for her birthday so she doesn't think its all about what you want and she'll be more comfortable.

and mark my words...a good sense of humor will get you a long way with a girl---keep her laughing and don't be afraid to be you.

good luck mang!

^^^ Coming from a girl, this is some good advice. Try to find out what her favorite food or restaurant is and take her to dinner based off of that. Keep it simple. If her favorite is some expensive cuisine, then find a good alternative with a fun atmosphere.

Flowers are a good choice. Something colorful yet simple, not too expensive. Don't do roses or carnations (duh). Find a cute or funny small card to add to the flowers.

You could go to a movie, or if the weather is warmer try an outside activity. Mini golf or go carts is a popular choice around here. You can probably figure out something along those lines.

What BallerMaro mentioned was also a good idea. See if you can get a small group of her friends together afterwards or something.

[LETZRIDE]

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If the weathers good I'd do miniputt rather then a movie... but a movie can still be good, the chit chat comes a dinner, and the movie is a time to kind of relax and take stuff in...eases any tensions...go for coffee after the movie. Im still against the flowers thing. Most girls I talk to or know always seem to bring up those time when guys bought them small things like that either on special occasion, randomly or at there birthday...They're always like...awwww, hes so nice....but its kinda weird...I mean on the first date? I dont even really know him...and they kinda get creeped out...or scared off...possibly worried that your getting too attached too fast... just my .02 though...

[firebird19_99]

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wow these are more responses than i thought i would get. I think almost every guy chimed in for this one, thanks (i did read everyones post btw). Well first to answer some basic Q you guys asked, i am 20 and i know the girl pretty well. We've been friends for a little while (like 3 months) so we basically know each other. I was thinking it over after i read all the posts and am still "iffy" on the flowers, card is a yes. As for the date i was thinking dinner, maybe go bowling or shoot pool? id take her minigolfing but i dont think theres one around here and finish it with a walk. what do you guys think.

[ATVrider89]

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Lol you sure got a ton of responses for one day, I would say no on the flowers unless you get her just one, for sure a card, maybe some chocolates? Girls always love chocolates although they want you to think that they don't. Follow up with dinner, than maybe putt putt or bowling cuz it will give the two of you some time to interact vs. a movie where you just sit there and watch. If you get desperate you could always go for the alcohol but it really depends on what type of girl she is?

[BallerMaro13]

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a lot of guys chimed in some good ideas, and there's plenty to choose from, so here's what i'd say is the best of all the responses put together...i've always been claimed to have a good hand with the ladies, so heed my advice:

single flower - yes, full arrangement - no
chocolates - hell no...save it for husbands and v-day
small & simple card - yes
dinner at a place of her liking - yes (great chance for one on one interaction)
movie - no (nothing blows a date faster than a girl sitting alone in the dark with a guy she's not comfortable being with....wait a few dates until you guys are more in touch with eachother)
bowling or pool - sure, but make sure to use this time to interact on a more physical scale, flirt a bit, and have fun....dont get too competitive and for the love of god don't try any stupid "smooth moves" like trying to get behind her and teach a shot
afterwards - i still stand behind (with pace's vote) getting a group of her friends together and making a group thing happen...she will be much more comfortable around her friends and it will give you a chance to get to know them and her socially. you'll never win over a girl until you've won over her friends/girls...period.
dont forget chivalry - it's a dead art and needs to be kept alive...open her doors, let her in the car, pull her chair, and let her know that you think of her as a lady--not a lay (i've been dating my gal for well over a year and still do all that stuff).

and if she's down for a party type deal, go for it...live it up. the key is to break the ice this time and get more dates down the road. good luck.

[savagecamaro96]

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wait, so your going to go on a date on her birthday?
i would get some friends together and celebrate her birthday then save the date for another day.

once you get to the date, show her your meat.

joke^

[flamingchicken]

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here is my $.02-

just be like "yo B-I, why dont you come back to mah crib and lets do tha wild thang!"

haha, no really, just be like so happy b-day, what would you like to do? first make sure she hasnt already made plans to do something with other, and if she has, BE FLEXIBLE! shell like that. and most importantly since you just started dating, dont come on too strong by bringing flowers, very generic, be nice and thoughtful, but not overwhelming.

[Blizzard242]

Re: I need some advice about a girl

SIIHP. I've never heard that before. So what's the first word.. Shove?

I vote that. Just don't change the P to a B. Or A.

[stevethepirate]

Re: I need some advice about a girl

Is it me or is the girl in the middle pregnant? And she's drinking too. no no there

Nah, not preggers. She's just leaning in towards the other girl.

SIIHP. I've never heard that before. So what's the first word.. Shove?

I vote that. Just don't change the P to a B. Or A.

Uhhh. I think you misunderstood that acronym. The P stands for something that is synonymous with B or A.

[Blizzard242]

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Uhhh. I think you misunderstood that acronym. The P stands for something that is synonymous with B or A.

Well, if I'm not mistaken.. It is a first date.